Dating : Onlyfans
of the last 6 women I’ve met (in person) and pursued, 3 were active on onlyfans and very open about it, one ended up being a stripper, and one was only after hooking up. I dunno what to think about this. Not saying 4/6 women are monetizing themselves but it sure seems like dating isn’t really a thing with younger women I’m meeting (20-26 age range). I talked to one about how when she stops using onlyfans (because, no joke, her boyfriend doesn’t like it) the lack of attention affects her mental health so she returns to using it. I must be getting old, don’t understand the kids these days.
Instant gratification syndrome due to asocialization of society through social medias
It isn’t a regular thing for women to be in the porn business, this is probably the demographic that approaches/returns you more because from your post, you seem old, so sugar babying with younger women is going to be the typical thing they’ll try to get you into.
I guess that’s because 20s women who don’t do OF do not meet 32 old year dude
Yeaaaaa not all of us are like this. Keep your head up OP you’ll find a wholesome girl that doesn’t need so much attention via social media platforms.
Yes, strippers at a strip club use onlyfans. I wouldn’t imagine most women, except stupid and desperate young women with no opportunities or skills might think they can get rich this way.
You’re 32- I’m assuming you’ve been working at an established career for quite some time now. You’re pursuing girls who are still in college two years in. How do you think they’re going to pay that off? Especially in a pandemic for the last two years? Lots of girls I know turned to only fans, stripping, or sex work to try and pay off their student debt. You yourself just called them kids. I’m 24 dating a 31 yo and he mentioned in the beginning how the youngest he’d consider was 27 because girls before that would only use him for money or ask to be a sugar baby. He screened on dating apps by checking out our LinkedIn profiles. It wasn’t until he saw that I’m a full time student and working full time that he was willing to go on more dates with me and even then in the beginning he was uncomfortable with the age gap.
If you’re dating women who are actually done college and have careers in their field of choice, I’m sure you won’t have these problems.
You are actively pursuing dating women 12 years younger than you and “accidentally” keep finding women involved in sex work.. but yeah.. it’s definitely that all “kids” are just looking to hook up and you are not problematic at all. /s
That’s all younger women care about nowadays it’s sad but they will learn money isn’t everything and by that time their looks will be gone and they will have nothing left but a bunch of cats
All you sour exes have to maybe roll on the idea that ur exes cared more about money than you
Most women only ever dated as a means to an end.
Now that they can skip that part and jump straight to their actual goal why wouldn’t they?
I suppose if you go for the type of women who are able to monetise their appearance… I’m not ugly by any stretch but even if I wanted to (I certainly don’t) I would not be able to make money on onlyfans or stripping.
Yeah these young girls going on Onlyfans is disturbing and makes me feel a huge generational divide and I’m only in my late twenties
Only fans is ruining love. Every girl I’ve talked to wanted me to buy their membership. If I wanted nudes, I’d go to pornhub or xvideos.
Maybe pursue people in their 30s.
I mean we have our careers pretty set.
I’m not even sure I could deal with a man under maybe..pushing it 26…
I’m a woman in my late 30s, tattooed,into fitness as well…have my career set…I’ve been attracting the young folk as well…
But on my side they dudes aren’t on only fans..
But I’m competing with women who are on only fans lol
i lost my best friend to onlyfans 🙁 , she was too ashamed to keep talking to me because i was like the father she never had. it was weird she’d privately send me increasingly lewd pictures, eventually saying she should make an onlyfans. I discouraged this and said it would make it hard for her to get married to a desirable man. then one day announced the onlyfans…didn’t hear from her after that.
guess she didn’t need my attention anymore
Women don’t even have to have an Only Fans to do this. Plenty of lonely men online that just want to talk and exchange pics for money. I did it as an experiment one month and made $900 in 3 weeks. I wasn’t on any sex website or anything like that. Strictly told them time is money and I’m here if you want to talk but you need to pay to play. While it was by far the easiest money I made, these men were super clingy and needy (as they had no one else in their lives) and it felt like a full time job being glued to my phone. No thanks!
Why are you going for girls that much younger than you? Leo DiCaprio is this you?
Women used to have to put out for male attention. Now they can get paid for it. It’s no wonder hookups are dying
I’ve never met a woman that has one
Personally in my 40’s I find the early to mid 20’s have an amazing “life is short have fun” attitude. It’s so much more fun having sex with them rather than women in their 30’s or 40’s who always seem to want to “know where this is going”
Onlyfans is like a modern socially acceptable way of making money without being in porn, like streaming, camgirls, etc
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“kids”… uh… why don’t you try eating within your age range?
My first question would be: Where are you meeting women?
And next, the pandemic threw everything out the window. I believe it truly erased the lines people might have at least thought about before crossing them. It’s wild out there.
Sad social inclusion needs
This keeps happening to me also. Though they’re not open about it. The current state of dating is just bad. I recommend the fresh and fit podcast on YouTube if you want some more understanding. Or Kevin Samuels.
I’ve had a friend who’s been telling me worth’s on meeting up for dates catfishing hook ups and just out to get free drinks
hot.