Tinder : Advice on a girl from Tinder
So there’s this girl that is following me and I’m following her on Instagram and I just saw she has a tinder profile today. I used my only super like on her and we talked on instagram once but I haven’t heard from her in a while. We haven’t met her in person but she’s really cute and I wanna take her out to dinner bad but I don’t want to be a creep. A part of me wants to message her on Instagram saying I wanna take her out because I don’t wanna wait for a superficial like on tinder to start another interaction. The other part of me just wants to play it safe and wait on tinder for her to like me back if she does. What should I do? She’s beautiful and I would love to take her out even if it doesn’t go anywhere but I don’t wanna creep her out. I’d appreciate your advice and thanks for reading my post!
tldr: a girl im following and is following me on Instagram is on tinder and I used my only super like on her so I can talk to her more but part of me wants to just straight up ask her on Instagram if she wants to get dinner and bypass tinder. We had a conversation on Instagram before.
By. throwaway9373972947
Full send. No point in waiting. Don’t act desperate, though. Just be casual and honest.
Wtf you’re already on her Instagram, quit wasting time
Full send. Women like the confidence.
Definitely should send, you don’t want to keep waiting. I personally like it when a guy would take initiative and ask, so just ask. It doesn’t hurt to send
women want confident men. That’s why women go for bad boys. I would just say I have seen you on instagram and I think you are beautiful but once I saw you on tinder I realized it was my chance to ask you out. Maybe say I wasn’t sure if you had a boyfriend and that’s why I didn’t ask you sooner
Full send. You already have an advantage over others due to her knowing you a bit. Might as well make use of that
If she hasn’t liked you back on tinder, I doubt she’s gonna say yes to a date. But there’s some chance she doesn’t use tinder much, so it’s not definitely gonna be a loss?