Tinder : Another prime example of being adults rather than children
Another prime example of being adults rather than children
By. Mini-simi
Another prime example of being adults rather than children
By. Mini-simi
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A guy sent me a message like this once. And when I replied “thank you for telling me and I hope you find someone you connect better with” he sent me a paragraph long text response stating everything he did not enjoy about me. So that was fun.
Edit: To answer the questions of what he found wrong with me (after 2 weeks of « dating ») was:
-not interested in traveling to meet his family yet
-he lived about 45 minutes away, after work I did not immediately want to drive in rush hour to his place just to have to drive back in a hour so I could get sleep for work the next day.
– I have a cat (my best friend so that argument wasn’t cool)
-I wouldn’t watch his dog when he was at work-see above to I have a cat
Who you gonna call? Ghost busters!
Funny thing is the dates Ive had that ended this amicably have always been the hardest because you can tell you missed out on a decent human being. When its ghosting or them flipping their shit on being turned down its always felt like a bullet dodged.
And kudos for not throwing the offhand shade in response after rejection. You’ll see often they’ll give a « Yeah, I wasn’t feeling it either », etc just to save face.
Isn’t this the first two texts of a shitpost about how the guy on the date wouldn’t shut up about animal crossing
Texts like these are hard to send and receive, but absolutely should be the norm rather than an unexpected bit of maturity.
I went out with a guy I met online through games who became super unresponsive after we went on a date. He didn’t ghost me but started ages to reply to my messages or just not converse with me anymore. I basically asked him if anything was wrong and if he’d rather we just not talk anymore. Told him to be honest with me so I know where we stand. He told me nothing was wrong and he wasn’t avoiding me.
He continued to avoid me.
I don’t understand why some people can’t jut be straight with how they feel, especially since I was the one who asked.
I’m a fan of not ghosting but I do have one slight problem with her text, the “true connection.” Far too often I’ve dealt with or heard of people expecting to feel something, that “true connection”, that generally comes with time and experience with an individual. Though she could just be using that a a general term, idk
Better than the girl who ghosted me and the last text I sent was “If you don’t wish to have another date that is fine but letting me know would be great. Thanks.”
Her: “Yeah no thanks. Have a good life”
after this convo, they both felt a connection.
I told a girl that our interests aligned but her weight put me off.
She told me to have a nice day.
The last girl I tried doing this with lost her mind. She apologized later but man it really makes you feel like a asshole when it goes south
I had something similar happen recently…sort of. It involves a neutral conversation like this in the end, but it also involved some ghosting in the middle. After weeks of good conversation but poor schedules with a girl, she cancelled our date because she said she wasn’t ready yet. After a few more days of conversation, she ghosted me for about three weeks. I texted her asking what happened, and then she responded telling me it wasn’t going to work out. She also happened to add in the fact that she’s dating someone instead of saying that up front…so that’s fun. It ended well though. No hard feelings, it just kinda sucks. We’re gonna keep in touch and stay friends because she really was super nice and cool. It just sucks that I might have missed out on my opportunity because I waited to ask what happened.
This is great. Why can’t this happen all the time?
I’m debating whether or not I should copy the link and send it to the chick that just ghosted me…
I’ve had a couple unsuccessful tinder dates in the past that weren’t love at first sight and when being told this responded as pictured….I assumed this was par for the course and those that can’t play nice wind up on r/niceguys but are in tiny minority.
Even if you’re upset or feeling rejected anything stupid you say makes them feel better about their decision and possibly more selective in the future
Sounds like it would actually work 😉
You could be an adult and realize that no one owes you anything.
Ghosting isn’t childish lol
Wait…you actually go on dates w people from tinder?
so did they person rejecting you pay the bill? My guess is that they didn’t.