Tinder : Do people always unmatch after a bad date, (Or is not being unmatched mean the date isn’t bad?)
Okay so here is the thing, I am not that experienced with dating, (had 2 long-ish relationships). I had a date with a guy, and I honestly I didn’t feel much of a connection, but feel that is mainly cause I was really nervous. I did like him and do like to see him again, but I feel he may have felt its an awful date though.
I half expected him to unmatch me, but he hasn’t, does that mean it may not be that bad after all? Or do people have bad dates and still don’t unmatch?
By. pittburner23
There’s an easy fix to this, and it’s to tell him you’d like to hang out again. If he declines you know he’s the type who doesn’t unmatch, and if he agrees you get a date.
Just had this happen to me the other day:
My car broke on my way to meet up, and it was something I hadn’t seen before. I had spent the night at my parents, so I wasn’t close to my tools to even really look at what happened.
The first bit, she didn’t seem that into me, so I was thinking that we were probably going to go separate ways after; then she suggested we go for food and was much more talkative in the restaurant. When we were eating, there was only really a wall behind her, and I was thinking about how I’m going to fix my car.
I didn’t feel much connection, but you can’t always tell who you’ll end up wanting to go everywhere with and I wasn’t really sure what she was feeling, so I decided to not push one way or the other. If she never messaged me again, I would have never messaged her again. If she asked for date #2 I’d probably say yes.
communication is key
wanna know whats up?
ask him
wanna second date?
ask him
wanna know what he thought of you and your first date?
FUCKING ASK HIM
STOP BEING A PUSSY AND FUCKING USE YOUR WORDS
That, or sometimes it means that he/she didn’t think you were “honest” in your photos and didn’t want to be confrontational. Could also mean you wanted different things
Just be honest with him and tell him you were nervous and you would really like to see him again