Tinder : girls are strange
girls are strange
By. luciphora
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Tinder : girls are strange
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She wants to chill and see if you’re worthy of a hookup and/or relationship and/or friendship. If you’re looking for a body count, she ain’t the one.
It’s a lot riskier for women to hook up with someone on an app than for men. If she agrees to a hookup without actually knowing if she’s attracted to you in person, there’s always the chance her consent will be violated. Meeting up somewhere first and seeing if there’s a vibe, **then** hooking up means she at least has more of a sense of whether 1) she’s actually attracted to you and 2) whether you seem like you’re likely to listen to what she wants and needs during sex.
She’s strange because she’d rather get to know a guy, establish a connection, then see where things go from there? Sorry buddy, but it sounds like you’re the strange one here.
« but with a few more steps »… dude…
Not a hookup with more steps, because not necessarily a hookup. She’s saying “If you want me to commit to fucking you sight unseen, move on. If you want to meet and see if we are both interested in more, let’s go.”
Men are dense.
Sounds pretty clear to me she is looking for possible relationships and doesn’t want just hookups. If it turns into a one night stand fine, but she wants to go into it with open expectations it could become more.
You seem like the annoying one in this exchange lol. Just go with the flow. You’re putting way too much meaningless shit into your exchange with a stranger
Lol why would you ruin your chance like that?
Extra steps matter. If you are going to move, you better talk to the owner and buy the house instead of just moving into a stranger’s place in one go.
More steps? When was the last time you allowed someone inside you? Feel the vibe and go with the flow. Seems like a pretty fair request.
She wants to get to know you a little bit and see if there’s a connection. She doesn’t want to just say, hey, come sit on my face and then you leave. If that’s what you want, cool. I don’t think that’s what she wants. Just my take.
How did this get so many upvotes? If you say you’re just looking for hookups as a woman you’ll get weirdos
Tbh I’m a dude and this resonates strongly with me.
Even if we just want to hook up, we don’t know asap if we connect with someone so yeah we want to talk to a guy first. And if we meet up, chances are pretty good that we’ll hook up but we need to see if we do connect in person too!
Don’t see what’s wrong with this? A lot of women just want to get to know a guy better since risks like sexual assault and forceful guys are much more real for women. Also she never said she wasn’t looking for something serious either, she basically just said she wants to get to know a guy before proceeding into sex or a relationship, which is very understandable. You’re kinda being an ass about it tbh
No clue how this got so many upvotes…
Bro, you see that ass? You go yo ass with the flow and fuck her on the first day. Shes just saying that shit because she doesnt want to think of herself as a hoe.
Everyone is overthinking it. You’re simply a Rick and Morty fan..
She wants to get dicked down behind chili’s but you gotta buy her an anytizer first my friend
This also belongs on the Rick and Morty Sub
Men need to be more old fashioned these days, treat women to a date and try to charm her out of her panties by the end of the night! Not this confirming sex before even meeting.
It’s a perception thing. There’s the spectre of judgement constantly floating over their heads. It demands that sex be justified. That’s really what they mean when they say meaningful. Keeps a lot of them from « just fucking ». Wanting to fuck isn’t justifiable enough for them to duck you
Me want vibes
Nah man, she just doesn’t want to hookup straight away or just have the sex and that’s it. She wants companionship and maybe sex without necessarily the commitment of a relationship.
I’ve come to terming it a “casual relationship”
Lmao sh wants to chill just not hookup
Sometimes you gotta take more steps to get more sex ya feel
Ohh la la. Somebidy is gonna get laid in college..
But this is exactly where I’m at personally, as well. I get what she’s saying and I second that.
But fellas what if she’s ugly before the meet up? O.o
Maybe more steps past some of these girls is what some of y’all need to do!
Even I know this, it’s not always about the destination, sometimes it’s about the journey.
I’m not young anymore and been burned too many times, I don’t mind the slow walk these days.
I mean… she’s just basically like most ppl on a dating app.. seeing where things go. Not out of the blew , straight up get with someone you just met online. Like.. first off to be safe and second off if his even worth the time to sleep with.
I always ask what ppls intentions are. Just to know if we’re on the same page.
Shouldn’t this be in the rick and morty sub?
*Eek barba derkle*
All the white knights in the comments are missing the point. She said she wasn’t into hookups, then when he asked what she’s looking for, she just used more words to say hookups.
She doesn’t want to “sign up” for sex before she even sees you in person like?? Is that too much to ask? You could show up drooling, handsy, and rude and she would be perfectly in her rights to back out. Or you could be a perfectly nice guy and she still could have reasons for not wanting to fuck right away or at all. It’s just that an unwritten tindr rule usually assumes that if you say to meeting, you’re saying yes to fucking. C’mon, it can’t be soooo difficult to establish a small foundation or friendship before deciding if you want to fuck someone?
It’s depressing that guys don’t understand the distinction
The just sounds like slavery with extra steps
Are you dumb?
Jesus Christ ITT: people who can’t separate a sly joke from actual belief.
It’s funny because it has a ring of truth to it AND because he *clearly* knows it’s not entirely true. Quit being so dense, Reddit.
honestly, she’s got a point.
This piece of advice is for every dense dude out there never ever point out the fact you want to hook up. This chick was obviously with a hook up but doesn’t want to state it. Go with the flow is code for that.
OP is wrong IMHO. I’m a guy (35, used to be married) and while you can’t ‘force’ a serious relationship, I avoid any ‘hook-up’ scenario where there’s no mutual feeling that we’ll see where it takes us. I think the key factor here is a hookup where there’s intention to ensure it’s only a hookup. Going with the flow is quite different, it’s not a euphemism for a one night stand, it means you’re willing to take things as far as they go, if that’s the vibe you’re feeling.
Post like these gets upvotes. This reddit community is the worst.
“That just sounds like slavery with extra steps”
Her profile picture isn’t really helping her
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This reminds me of « thats just slavery with extra steps »
She makes perfect sense. As a guy I prefer her approach as well. I mean if she is open and says let’s just fuck… I’m probably not gonna say no but if she is fairly attractive and seems to have a good personality, I would like to know if there might be something more serious there. If there is real chemistry, I don’t wanna pass that up for a fwb situation or a hookup.
Rick and morty reference, check