Tinder : I’ve been dealing with several difficult issues for a few months, feeling very unwanted and unworthy. Was stood up by someone I thought cared about me and then I had this conversation the same day. Good times.
I’ve been dealing with several difficult issues for a few months, feeling very unwanted and unworthy. Was stood up by someone I thought cared about me and then I had this conversation the same day. Good times.
By. nonoriginal85
You dont need a negative person like that in your life. Hope everything turns around for you.
Bro, I feel you right here. Have not had this type of conversation but i broked up from my 5 years ex 1 year ago. And since then all my dates/hangouts have been absolutr disappointment. Now im living in a small city of finland, as a foreigner,not even 1 proper friend. Just trying to go day by day and self improve both phsycially and mentally. Gym/workouts help a lot on the mental pressure of being unwanted btw, because although I might be unwanted, I can look at the mirror and say thats their miss and try to move on.
One day the correct person will come into your life brother, hang on there and optimise your tinder profile. If you need help on that hit me up.
I wouldn’t think about it too much, you got a job and hang out with dogs. Count your wins, life can only be good when you stay positive.
What the fuck is the point of her chatting then? Some people have less use than a bag of spuds.
Why the fuck did she even match with you?
If they don’t ask you anything back, drop them. They aren’t interested. If a girl is genuinely interested in you, she will make it very clear. This advice changed my whole dating experience. Goodluck.
« Wanna do something together *privately*? »
Hang in there, buddy. Life might look rough right now, but it can’t last forever. You’ll get out of it soon, man.
Bro I have no idea why some girls even swipe right if they gonna act like this, seems super manipulative imo
This girl was probably a fake account bc that’s @babymeia on Instagram
So sorry about this, OP. That’s a terrible way for that girl to behave and must have felt like a real kick in the teeth when you were already feeling low. Hope things look up for you ❤️
Then why the hell did she swipe? Like, what was even her motive? I’m not on tinder myself, but I see this a lot on this subreddit, where people will swipe when they very clearly are not interested in anything. That’s almost worse than a ghost, maybe it is
Bro, if you feel unwanted and stuff Tinder is the wrong Place for you
This Type of conversations are Daily there
Life is too short to waste time with such person.
Dammit OP. Now I want to hug you.
She’s fun
Give her the silence treatment
Why have the conversation ? It’s a dating app, I don’t get why people just don’t say « I’m not interested, sorry » and save a lot of faff.
Sorry you’re going through the ringer. I’d say it’ll get better, but.. *gestures broadly at everything*
Hey bud. You’ll get through this bud. Keep your head up bud
People suck
Just delete that stupid app friend.
Why did you even ask her out? Her responses are short and she hardly even engages. You should have just stopped messaging after she replied, ‘Cool’.
That’s tinder lol 90% of girls are dead asf for real, they on there thinking way too highly of themselves considering where they stand… keep thriving king
She doesn’t seem like the most enthusiastic one, but also I would consider building a bit more rapport before asked her out
The unmatch point was at « cool » no more words needed.
Just delete tinder,and talk to someone in “real life “
Wow. Just wow.
Damn bro,I had something familiar,I still feel like shit,I hope you are doing ok man.
Well C U Next Tuesday
Fucking yikes man, it hurts to be on the enthusiastic side, try not to think about it too much and live on with your life, i hope you find your happiness soon!
She just Not in the mood just forget about it
you’re not alone my guy. Fuck em
Why the hell is she on tinder if she isn’t down for doing literally anything then?!….these people man.
Keep your chin up my dude ❤
Then why the fuck are you on tinder? If you don’t wanna do anything, what’s the point?
Girls like that are very insecure and go to tinder to feel validated. You don’t need that negative energy in your life King
Keep your head up, bud! Good luck with everything. I hope you feel better soon.
I understand where you’re coming from but you really wouldn’t want someone that dry and negative in your life anyways…
Hope the best.
I guarantee my life is worse
I had to go through a lot of bad dates and time wasted before finding someone decent on Tinder. I was actually stood up twice by three different guys each; 6 times in total in 2 weeks. Don’t take it personally, you got this.
Not trying to down play how shitty this is. But I live by the thought of taking things one little victory at a time. You got a match little victory. She responded little victory. She was a shitty person little loss. You dodged a big bullet that puts your count a 3-1. Doesn’t seem so bad. You’re killing it my dude keep putting one foot in front of the other and things will get better.
bro fuck those chicks keep your head up my dude
Surround yourself with people that are good for your mental health