Tinder : Why swipe right if you aren’t interested.
I don’t understand people on this app sometimes. Not saying I haven’t had any luck on it as I have had a few dates. But why i
Would someone you match with not even talk to you. I can understand if you chat and the interest isn’t there. But to not even respond is ridiculous. I suppose maybe they are right swiping everyone just to get matches and then not talking of someone “better” matches? Me personally I will talk to every single person I match. No it doesn’t always go anywhere but at least I gave it a chance.
By. dirtyboy1975
Being on the receiving end of a flake sucks ass, and — speaking more broadly — feeling disappointment sucks ass. It’s totally okay and normal and reasonable for you to feel that way about being flaked or ignored.
That said, I don’t believe it’s fair to accuse someone of being « ridiculous » or to talk down about them because they don’t manage their Tinder activity in the same way as you. There’s a long list of reasons why somebody may never respond to a match, and while you pride yourself on talking to every single person, it’s okay and maybe even *good* that not everybody feels obligated to conduct their Tinder activity in that way.
Plus, since you’ll never *actually know* why most of them didn’t ever answer you, it’s just an infuriating exercise in futility for you to fret about the question. On pretty much any O.L.D. platform, and in any introductory interpersonal relationships at all, it’s generally best to calibrate your expectations with the understanding that no new interaction is any guarantee of any other future action.
When this blonde girl swiped right on me last year i was happy. Than she unmatched me and i felt so depressed. Only reason that people do that is because of swiping right on a person by accident, since they were swiping to quickly.
In that case, i would tell those people just apologize to the person you matched and say » i swiped to quickly, wasn’t trying to swipe on you cuz of (input your reason why you did that). Its not hard to write 2 sentences and unlatch after.