4 tips for working with someone you can’t stand
We come into contact with different personalities every day. With some people we make friends, with others on the contrary, relationships are difficult. But at work, whether we have affinities or not, if we do not like a colleague, she will still be part of our daily lives. so here’s 4 tips for working with people you don’t like.
1.DON’T STOP AT THE FIRST PRINT
You often get an idea of others before you even know them, and then it is difficult to detach yourself from them. In the world of work, it can quickly become embarrassing when you have a negative image of someone you see every day. This is why it is important to eliminate this bad reflex of prejudice and open up to others.
2. LISTENING
Most of the misunderstandings arise from the fact that when we have an idea, a point of view, it is difficult for us to remain open to the opinion of the other. And we absolutely seek to convince our detractors that they are wrong and that we are right. Gold, to know how to listen and exchange allows not only to understand the other, but then to be able to have His attention.
3. TAKE BACK
It is also important to know take a step back, get out of yourself and look at the facts from an outside point of view; and ask yourself what is bothering you, what the facts are and how you might find common ground.
4. SEEK THE BEST
And if rather than always trying to see the negative, the faults in others, you sought to see the positives and the qualities … It seems that, very often, the faults that exasperate us the most in others are in fact the a reflection of our own flaws, of which we are not even aware.
If criticizing others then amounts to criticizing yourself, why inflict this on yourself? Let’s seek the best in everyone, seek the best version of ourselves.
» Those who hate you cannot win unless you hate them too; and that’s when you destroy yourself. «
– Unknown author –
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