9 ways to know that you want to go further with a person
Do you really want to go further with this person? Read this article to see more clearly and not waste your energy in unnecessary headaches …
MARCH 24, 2021 Reading: min.
When it’s about feelings, you can quickly get tangled brushes. Do I really want to go further with this person? Yes, no, maybe … And we can change our minds depending on the behavior of the person and the events we are going through. Without forgetting that our heart and our brain are engaged in a merciless war to know the good choice to make … So we invite you to see more clearly in your feelings to advance or not with this person.
Falling in love is one of the strangest and most wonderful things a human being can experience. And while it’s different for everyone, there are some common thoughts and feelings that can help people identify when it’s happening.
You might be dealing with one of the obvious indicators – like not being able to think of anyone or anything other than that person – or the signs might be more obscure. So if you see this person regularly, like them, but you are not sure what your feelings are … Here is 9 signs that you want to go further with a person :
1. You feel the need to look at the other
When we feel the need to look intently at a person, it is very often a love sign. Eye contact is very important, and various studies have already shown that couples who look each other in the eyes feel more in love than those who do not have eye contact. And if you try the experience of staring strangers in the eye for several minutes, you will start to feel romantic feelings for the other.
2. You love spending time with each other
When you are in the early stages where everything is beautiful and rosy, everything the other does and says is great. You will also notice that it is often difficult to know what could go wrong with the other, we find little or no flaws in him. Certainly, this phase is to be lived fully and is part of thelove state but don’t be blinded … A study by the University of Warsaw shows that having feelings towards someone makes you tend to overestimate the person.
3. You feel fully happy
Various studies show that the brain of a person who fall in love is much the same as that of a person who has taken cocaine. Why ? Because the feelings of love releases dopamine, the hormone of happiness.
4. You think of this person very often
Whether it’s at your job, when you’re with friends or with family, you regularly find yourself thinking about this person. Indeed, the brain releases phenylethylamines, which are neurotransmitters, and that translates into an incredible infatuation with the person for whom you have feelings.
5. You resist your feelings
For some people, resistance often hideslove. It can happen that we tell ourselves that the other is not a person for us, that they do not correspond to us, and many other false excuses or reasons. This resistance is present because it is due to the fact that we are afraid of suffering when entering into a relationship. We can have little that the relationship does not work, that it is a source of conflict, sadness and rupture. But to fall in love involves taking risks …
6. You think about the happiness of the other
When love tip of his nose, we put the happiness of the other and his desires before our own. Here it is not a question of obeying the finger and the eye to the other person but to make the life of the other person more pleasant and sweet. For a healthy love and compassionate, thinking about the happiness of the other is essential and is part of the love equation, because it shows that we are ready to leave our comfort zone to go towards the other.
7. You try new things
You may find that you have sudden interests in each other’s passions. Different studies have shown that romantic feelings can vary our personality. It is therefore not surprising that many people at the beginning of a relationship try new activities, in particular to impress the other and to surpass themselves. Oh, love…
8. You feel more stressed in his presence
Even if he’love fact that we are on a cloud, the fact of to fall in love causes the brain to release cortisol, which is the stress hormone. So one can also develop physical symptoms of anxiety, and therefore you can sweat, feel more stress for no apparent reason.
9. You laugh all the time by his side
It is very easy to laugh with this person when you are around them. You tease each other, you make jokes, and you laugh together a lot. Being by his side is very easy.
You will understand, certain signs do not deceive in matters of love relationship. It’s not just about friendship if you are happy around that person, that you feel attraction and empathy for each other.
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