How to know if he is playing it independent or if he just doesn’t care
You have a great time with him, but it looks like it doesn’t work out. Maybe it’s because he plays it independent but really likes you deep down, but maybe also he just doesn’t care about you. The difference is still easy to see if you open your eyes.
Unfortunately, love can make you blind sometimes and you end up getting bamboozled.
Here are 8 signs that don’t lie:
1. Text messages
Play it independent: He never texts you first, but he always answers you. Maybe not right now, but hey, he prefers to wait for you to write to him so as not to seem too chasing after you.
Who cares : It doesn’t respond to your texts, or takes hours or even days to respond. However, when you are with him he always has his cell close to him. The excuse of « Sorry I was in exam » 2 weeks later is no longer very valid. Especially if he sends it to you at 3 a.m. on a Friday night.
2. Jealousy
Play it independent: Made on purpose to make you a little jealous by telling you stories that make him seem wanted.
Who cares: Tell you about her night out with another girl or watch her on Instagram in front of your face.
3. Desire
Play it independent: Flirt right in front of you at parties, wants to make himself feel a little wanted and show you that he has other options so maybe you should give him your full attention.
Who cares: Part of the party with this person. He doesn’t want to be wanted, he wants to be with her and not you. Sorry.
4. Two-way shots
Play it independent: Don’t make too long term plans with you, but is always available when you suggest them. Will offer it to you 1-2 days in advance too.
Who cares: Cancel a party the same day with a bogus excuse that makes it look good: « my friend really needs me his girlfriend just left him » or « I really need to do someovertime my boss needs me ”. Once it may be true. After 3-4 times, matchstick.
5. Friends
Play it independent: You meet his friends, and they all seem to already know that you exist, and who you are, but don’t ask too many questions. They still treat you like a friend.
Who cares: His friends question you because they don’t have any damn idea of who you are. « What’s your name again? » «
6. Busy
Play it independent: He is often busy, but when he is not, your moments together are good quality moments and the conversation is stimulating.
Who cares: It takes anything to get to see you, and he never has anything new to tell you.
7. Independence
Play it independent: Refuse your help for anything, even if he appreciated it just so he didn’t seem to depend on you.
Who cares: Take the opportunity to get face down with his friends at a party where you are driving him. Doesn’t intend to invite you to end the evening with him afterwards.
8. Communication
Play it independent: He doesn’t necessarily text or call you. But if you go 24 hours without communicating, you will end up hearing from him one way or another. A text, likes that appear out of nowhere, your name tagged under a funny video … he wants you to think of him.
Who cares: You can go days and days without talking to each other.
One thing is certain, girlis that you must never accept being a plan b. But make sure it’s not because of the 9 reasons why you’re just impossible to date!
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