POF : Looking for a critique of my POF about me. I’ve got like 6 photos, head, a body shot too, just flatlining on any responses from women who have same interests, religious views and are looking for someone like me. I’m 5’6, average build, no gut. I feel like I’m doing something wrong 😐
Looking for a critique of my POF about me. I’ve got like 6 photos, head, a body shot too, just flatlining on any responses from women who have same interests, religious views and are looking for someone like me. I’m 5’6, average build, no gut. I feel like I’m doing something wrong 😐
By. Dimension_Override
I’ve got some likes, but free account so can’t see or msg those people. Out of like 70+ msgs sent I’ve got 1 conversation where she eventually bailed. Otherwise I told a couple ice breaker jokes which got a “haha nice one” or “LOL that’s awesome” and then ghosts.
I am separated, not divorced completely. Not sure how much impact that has on things.
Honestly the biggest thing that sticks out to me is kids. If someone doesn’t have and doesn’t want kids they’re not likely to want to get involved with someone who does. If they don’t have kids but want them, they’re not going to bother with someone who doesn’t want anymore and if they do have kids they may not be thrilled at the idea of navigating two single parent schedules and the eventual blending situation.
Also, harsh and stupid, but it could be your height. Personally I don’t care how tall a man is if he checks all my other boxes but a lot of women have a magical height at which men become more attractive. It’s dumb but it’s still a thing unfortunately.