POF : Wow – Due to an extremely high volume of incoming messages…
I sent a woman a message and she immediately replied with this long ass message. Gotta say I was a bit turned off.
>Hello, I am so glad that you were interested in talking to me. As you may expect due to an extremely high volume of incoming messages, I am asking everyone who has written me to read this message thoroughly. Yes I am real, yes I live in ——, yes I am here looking for what my profile says. With that being said I ask that you go to my profile and make sure you grasp a firm understanding of who I am and what I am looking for. After doing that, I ask that you only continue trying to message me if you meet the following; You have your own place, this means no living with parents, or ex lovers. I may be OK with roommates in certain situations depending on what they are. I also ask that you have your own vehicle and what you carry valid insurance and have a valid license. I’m very old-school and if we continue talking I will ask you to come to my location from time to time. The last thing that I ask is that you be sure of what you want in your life, that you have no drama surrounding children or current and past relationships. If you have kids I will want to know about custody and visitation arrangements, as well as what your relationship is with the other perent.I am here to find someone to build my empire with therefore I only have time for people who are doing just as well if not better than I am. I will want to know about your values, about how your relationship with your family is and about how you were raised. I am absolutely not here for casual sex or hook ups, no I will not Netflix and chill with you. Yes I will expect you to take me on a proper date, and be a gentleman if we talk. I know what I want, I know it’s out there, and I ask that you do not reply unless you have thoroughly read this, and that you were able to give me a response that has substance and addresses the points that I made in this letter clearly. I am not a catfish, I am not a bot, these are real pictures and I am a good woman. I am on the site because I do not have much time to get out and meet people. I’m not big into bar or club scenes though I do enjoy going out on the town, I work so much I hardly have time to meet anyone. So maybe he will be here. I know it seems like I want a lot but if I do back and forth small talk with everyone my inbox would freeze .. I promise it’s worth being in full disclosure .. Best of luck to you please have patience in awaiting my reply. Have a nice day …
By. [deleted]
I’ve seen a profile kinda like this before just with statements like »if u look dirty, don’t message me » & « ask yourself if you’re worthy of me before you message me »…I say all that just to say, stay away from women like that, from my experiences it doesn’t take long for you to find out why they’re single
Works a lot but has no time to get out.
Money bet that work will pop up a lot if she’s not feeling it. She has her requirements and if you fall out of any of them, she’ll more than likely ghost on you.
If someone wants to be with they’ll make the time, not because you both happen to be single with the mindset of I’ll try you out for a bit, but text something stupid and I’m outta here.
This is clearly a copy and paste message they’re just seeing who will reply, it’s a coin flip, but if your gut tells you no, go with your gut feeling.
copy pasta
I was expecting « because I deserve it » somewhere in that mess. Honestly if she needs to put that out, she’s got some issue of perspective if there’s not a single guy in the « extremely high volume » that is conversation worthy.
If you got a response that quick she has sent that message to any guy who has messaged her.
I am a girl and on POF all I ask is that a guy reads my profile before messaging me. I also put in my profile that I am not looking to hook up at all. I am looking for something real but not looking to rush into it. I want to let it develop into something