Tinder : How long do you typically message with a girl before you try to ask her out?
I know this will to some degree be a case by case matter and depend on how quickly rapport is built, but give me some general, broad strokes time frame.
By. themainheadcase
Tinder girl? First conversation.
I’d say after 1-2 weeks of talking everyday or close to that
Until my gut tells me to do something.
If the conversation is flowing and you think you’re clicking with her, it really doesn’t matter. If she’s super interested she will either ask you or you can ask after a couple days. My BF and I met up after like three days I think? That being said, I was the first to say “we should hang out!”
First ten messages or so, unless the conversation is really flowing or fun. They are swimming in a sea of matches, you need to be quick.
What if you talk until she asks you out? Just an idea.
I’m a girl and frankly I would rather talk with someone until I’m comfortable enough to ask them out for a drink or something