POF : Would like some advice
I know this is a stupid question and I’m anticipating getting dunked on but I’m a very shy guy and have absolutely no skill when it comes to meeting people that I’m interested in. So what I’m asking is can you guys give me some good ice breakers for introducing myself to someone. Just some tips and/or friendly ways to make that first contact. Thanks
By. Invaderhim
I know you’ve heard this before and you’re probably going to ignore it but just let me remind you – be yourself and be honest. Nothing turns on a member of the opposite sex quicker than the truth. If you’re funny in real life, be funny on your profile. If you’re a nice person in life, be a nice person online.
I’m a 61 year old retired guy, average looking at best and before the virus hit, I had a very active and social dating life. I live outside of Vancouver, Washington and I traveled to Denver Colorado, San Diego California and Stockholm Sweden for dates and had girls fly in from New Orleans Louisiana, Pittsburgh Pennsylvania and Istanbul Turkey just to meet me.
Don’t let anything stop you from meeting the person of your dreams. I’ve been doing this for five years after a 37 year marriage. While I loved being a husband and father, I’ve found that the single life is making me much happier.
Go get em, newbie.
Remember, YOU get to decide who you allow in your life and it’s YOUR responsibility as a dater to be nice.
How old are you?
If you are school/college/university age, try and simply make friends with girls there and things will happen naturally, don’t bother with pof, the women are jaded and hostile horribles.
Though I don’t have the gift of the gab as they call it I found with dating that if there any sort chemistry or spark with the person your meeting talking to them is really easy and natural