Dating : Girls What Do You Mean?

Women are indirect and it drives men insane

Women don’t follow rules. I don’t mean they break the law, they just don’t follow blackjack rules. If you’ve ever played blackjack at a casino, you know that there are unspoken rules in the game. If you have a 5 and a 7 and the dealer is showing a King, you have to hit.

No one will kick you out of the game if you don’t, but you’re expected to because it’s the right move to make.

When it comes to dating and relationships, women don’t play by rules. Men will ask them what they want to do Friday night and they’ll say it doesn’t matter.

We believe them at face value because we’re simple-minded animals. We can’t comprehend why they wouldn’t just tell us they want to stay home or watch a movie that night. We don’t get it.

What’s worse, is making the wrong plans and upsetting her, without knowing what we did wrong.

Wrongfully sentenced to prison without a clue as to why. This is the life of a typical man.

Women don’t reveal true intentions

Their words have a different level of meaning. They will tell you A when they mean B.

Oh, and they expect men to be mind readers.

On some level, I get it, they assume their boyfriends to know them well enough. If not, he should put in the effort to find out.

The problem is men don’t operate the same way. We’re straight forward like binary computers, 1 and 0, black and white, yes and no. We’re good at taking orders, all we want is to be told what to do.

But nope, that’s no fun for females. They love mental games and gaining the upper hand. They are great at manipulating their husbands, dads, and admirers into whatever they want. I don’t mean that in an offensive way, I just mean that women are much more emotionally intelligent and mature than men. That’s why guys never win.

Women are much more subtle than men

Dudes are obvious, what we say is what we mean. If we don’t call you, we aren’t interested, it’s simple as that. We aren’t testing you or playing hard to get.

Ladies are much more complicated. They are delicate and sensitive; little details matter to them a lot.

If we could print out a visual of a man’s thoughts and a woman’s thoughts. The man’s picture would only have a few lines. The women’s picture would look like the world map and the Mono Lisa meshed together.

That’s why they swim in a curly line instead of a straight line. They’ve got so many ways to express their needs. They don’t need to ask you to do the dishes directly, only guys do that. What they’ll do is tell you they had a long day at work and they are tired, by the way, they have to go to bed soon because they need to get up early in the morning.

The guys who pick up on these cues and respond well will survive, the ones that don’t, won’t.

Women usually make their intentions unclear

They will show interest and give signs. But they will also send mixed signals to confuse men. Flirtatious one minute and distant another. It drives us nuts, we love it and hate it at the same time.

Give them credit, they are masters of emotion and they know how to use it to their advantage.

Don’t easily believe women

They aren’t liars, they just don’t use logic, we need to communicate with them in their language, which is a tough task.

When they pick a fight with us, it doesn’t necessarily mean they are mad at us, or that we’re doing something wrong. Sometimes they simply want us to listen to them, really listen to them. And in their minds, the best way to accomplish that is by getting into an argument, instead of telling that to our face.

There’s a reason behind everything they do.

How to combat the unpredictability of women

We can’t. No matter how much we don’t like it, we’ll never really know what they’ll throw at us at any given time.

Yet, that’s the beauty of women, they do as they feel. Nothing is rigid, limited, or plotted. When they love you they will give you everything they’ve got and more. When they hate you they will banish you out of the universe. It’s hard to pin them down or define them. They are forevermore sophisticated than we are. Cheers to women.