How to recognize a man in love who hides his feelings?
What signs prove that a man is in love with you?
You’ve been in a relationship for some time or you’ve just met him but you already like him. You feel that you are attracted to him and that you fall in love.
Yet you have the impression that, for his part, he is rather distant. He doesn’t seem interested in you, or at least he doesn’t show it to you. Despite his strange behavior, you want to be with him.
But, something is blocking you: you are afraid that you will not like him as much as you like. You dread being rejected and don’t know how to approach the subject with him.
Do not be afraid ! This is all normal. Remember that women communicate their feelings much more easily than men. To them their actions are much more important than their words.
In general, they prefer to show you their interest or their love by tender gestures and little attentions. For example, rather than telling you that they love you, they will introduce you to their close friends.
For them, it is much more important to prove your love than to say “I love you”. How then to recognize the signs of a man in love in secret? How does a man show his feelings? What behavior does a man who hides his feelings adopt?
This is what we are going to reveal to you in this text. Indeed, we will help you to decipher the behavior of a man in love who hides it. Here, then, are the signs of a man who hides his feelings:
1. He’s trying to impress you
All you need is him. At least according to this man. You’re afraid ? He will protect you. Do you have to carry heavy boxes? He will do it for you. Do you have to take out the trash? Don’t worry, he’s here to do it!
In this way, he tries to show you his qualities, his strengths and his willingness to work with you to make your life easier. He wants, in this way, to give you the impression that he is indispensable and that you can count on him in any situation.
This is THE sign of a man in love who does not cheat!
2. He never refuses one of your proposals
Whatever you want to do, he’s ready to do it with you. Whatever idea you have (going to the movies or skydiving), he’ll do anything to participate. Even if his schedule is crowded, he will manage to free up a niche for the activity of your choice.
He wants to be present at all costs, which is the attitude of a man in love in secret.
3. When he is with you, he is never accompanied by other women
When you speak with him, you have the impression that among his friends or acquaintances there are no single women. If you start the topic, he will respond briefly. Yet he will never speak of this on his own.
He doesn’t want to make you feel like you have competition and if he has a single woman around he is always going to be careful to point out that she is just a friend.
4. When he talks to you, he leans towards you
He can’t help but do this! Indeed, the fact that he is attracted to you unconsciously pushes him to seek intimacy. As a result, when speaking to you, he looks you directly in the eye and instinctively leans towards you.
Likewise, he will lower his voice so that you also have to bend down to hear him. He doesn’t do it on purpose, but quite simply, when he is with you, he loses control of his body: he will, for example, grow a lock of hair or touch your shoulder.
5. He makes fun of the other men in your life
This is what he prefers to do: he seeks to show you that he is the perfect man for you and that other people are no match for him. But beware ! This behavior can be a double-edged sword.
Indeed, if he makes fun of the other men in your life jokingly and in a really funny way; so give it a chance!
On the other hand, if he demeans them in a mean and degrading way; avoid it. This kind of man has an ego problem and if you get into a relationship with him, he will try to get you to boost his ego.
6. He makes it clear to you that he is single
He will often bring up this subject. He will tell you that he is looking for a special woman, that he is waiting for his soul mate or that his heart is ready to love. Saying that, he’ll probably give you a revealing look.
If a woman approaches him when you are together, he will talk to her until he notices a reaction from you. If he sees a little jealousy in your behavior, it’s won!
Once he gets that reaction, he’ll gently push the other woman away. And there you will find out that he was just trying to get your attention. You can’t help but think: “this is the behavior of a man who seduces”!
7. His body language is quite open
You have his full attention and it shows. Men generally like to look around to see if there is something of interest. If when he talks to you he looks you straight in the eye, it means he has already found what interests him.
In addition, if he feels good with you, he will tend to gesture a lot. He will speak with his hands and describe certain situations to you visually.
Here is, again, typical behavior for a man in love.
8. When you talk about another man, he becomes silent
If you are interested in another man in your life, he will listen to you talk about him but will not comment. However, his attitude will leave no doubt: he does not like the idea that you like another.
While you are talking about him, he will withdraw because he will feel hurt: he will feel like he has lost his chance with you. You can always use this topic to test it: if it reacts that way when you talk about another, then you have it!
9. He plays it half-fig, half-grape
One day he will be 100% present, you give hundreds of compliments and offer to spend more time together; another, it will practically disappear. The explanation for this kind of behavior is quite simple.
He is in love with you but is not ready to reveal it. Maybe he isn’t sure about your feelings or is he afraid to go too fast? At one point, he lets himself go and takes advantage of the present moment; then to another, he withdraws for fear of being rejected and hurt.
10. When he’s with you, he seems nervous.
When he talks to you, he seems to lose his words. When he explains something to you, he plays with his hair. It looks like ants roam his entire body so much he moves in his chair!
The reason for his attitude is this: he gibes too much to hide what he really wants to talk about. He is tempted to tell you that he likes you but something is preventing him. He also wants to look his best and is afraid you won’t find him attractive.
11. It imitates your movements
When we are attracted to someone, we subconsciously imitate their actions because we want to be like him or her.
To check if he’s in love with you, you can do a little test. The next time you see each other, cross your arms when talking to her. If he’s interested in you, he’ll copy your attitude.
12. He teases you and jokes about the possibility of being in a relationship with you
Men love to tease and be titillated. This allows them to create an intimacy and a strong bond without all the seriousness of a romantic relationship. For them it is a way of including you in a private and secret group of which only two people know the language.
A man who is in love with you will surely give you a nickname and joke about being in a relationship with you. It’s a test: he tries to see the reaction you are going to have to this idea.
These signs of a man in love are rather easy to read. If you spot this behavior in the person you like, don’t hesitate! Tell him how you feel and trust us: he will respond the same!
On the other hand, if he does not show this attitude, there is little chance that he is interested in a relationship with you. In this case, you have two choices: either give up the idea of being with him (but it could break your heart) or you take your courage in both hands and you ask him directly.
If he answers no, at least you know what to expect. But who knows? Perhaps he will surprise you by admitting to being attracted to you …
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