Dating : How being Mom opened me to new life perception.

Being a Mom is easy.
Being a Working Woman is easy.
Being a Working Mom is challenging but possible.

As my Chinese doctor told me, there are two types of women. One is more Yin-oriented, and the second Yang oriented. Both have their advantages and disadvantages. In contrast, Yin is the receptive and Yang with the active principle. Some moms on maternity leave like to care about the house, cook, make everything in order, and other groups of moms open their business and do many different things in one day, which causes chaos and stress.

I am 100% Yang oriented, and also, my doctor confirmed me. She said that I have explosive energy with many ideas I need to give out. Otherwise, I would die mentally. It is how I feel it as well.

Since I have a baby and am happily married when I started to have peace of mind in love, I began to see my true passion much clearer.

For many years I have been lost. I had a dream job, traveled all over the places every month for ten years, but I felt not complete and lost.
One day I wanted to start to create smart leather bags. Two days later, I set up a startup with my ex-boyfriend.

But it has been ten years since I have been talking about my own sales agency. I didn’t see the clear concept until it lighted up in the worst and the best possible time, right after giving birth.

With love in my life, I also uncovered the courage to do things I want to do.

I started blogging, and I started coaching. I set up my company, increasing my audience, and preparing online courses. I am doing all kinds of things I feel I need to give out from me.

So being a working mom is possible, but hold on. It is always about a healthy balance. And healthy balance is the most difficult. Being wholly and only Yang oriented is not a good sign, the same it is for Yin women. Each of these groups needs to work on their opposite aspect.

Me, Yang, I need to calm down. I need to not think about work and find beauty in an ordinary day with housework. To be a good mother is still priority number one for me.
And I am telling you it is challenging for me to make up my mind when I spent working a lot and when I can go ahead and not be worried that I am not using free time to cook or bake.

We, women, tend to compare. That is why Instagram is so popular. When I see how moms bake for their families, I always feel bad. Please don’t take me wrong. I do cook and bake, LOL. We live a healthy lifestyle. We go out to nature. We do sport and hiking.
I just rather spend my free time at home writing this blog (while Marina sleeps) than doing pickles. 🙂