Dating : Like Sleeping Alone

Three (3) Things To NOT Do

In search for the perfect partner can seem like forever and of your control. Now with the corona virus covid-19 meeting people out in the real world is close to impossible and extremely difficult. The best thing to do is to create an online profile and hope for the best.

Very quickly you notice that people don’t respond to your e-mails or if they do, they fade out. When you finally do meet someone that would like to go out on a date. You get all happy hoping that this person you are about to meet is the right one to spend the rest of your life with. Only to realize within the first five (5) minutes of meeting them that there’s nothing really there. Why is this so hard? What if I never meet that special someone to share my life with ? It can be extremely scary to even begin to think that you will spend the rest of your life all by yourself.

Meeting people and going out on dates is the easiest part of the game. You’re reading this because you would like more than just a few hours company. You want a lifetime companion to share the good and the bad of what life tends to throw at us. That’s the reason that dating advice doesn’t work. Dating tips and techniques might get you a date but don’t teach you about the deeper shifts one needs to make and get to in order to create a genuine, loving, long-lasting, lifetime partnership with you.

The honest truth about attracting genuine love in your life and finding your soulmate to spend the rest of your life with. It’s about the smaller inner shifts that have big life changing results. When these changes take place you can make every single dating mistake and it won’t matter. These inner shifts get to the real problem, the root of what’s blocking you from finding true love. (insecurities, self-destroying beliefs, fears, doubts and of course unprocessed pain) Believe it or not this are not just challenges but a way to let you know what you really want and don’t want in life and in a loving relationship.

These love blocking issues. I like to call them challenges to change your perspective and the way you can look at something from a different approach to rise above it. are all running under the surface of all we say and do. Even though we are not fully aware we often don’t even realize how they control who we attract and how we feel in our relationships. We basically can’t believe every thought we think and react right away without giving it any logic or really stopping and realizing that is you thinking that and not your reality. Until we face and address those root causes from past experiences. We will never change the way we experiencer love.

Questions to ask yourself. Why am I still single? How come I have been attracting the wrong kind of people? What is the fastest way to attract a compatible partner? and what are my hidden barriers? are just a few. That are keeping you from love even if you think you’ve already have done enough work around this area.

It is not magic & you absolutely don’t need a crystal ball or a magic wand to tell you if you are doing any of these things.

Your current relationship and/or the one you are about to have are not accidents. If you suffer from insecurities, pain, rejection, abandonment, constant conflict or lack of trust there’s clearly a reason for it. All of that has been stored in the back burner of your subconscious beliefs you picked up from a past experience before you were old enough to date. As a child we all develop what love is suppose to be and how is suppose to show up in our lives. It even matters when you were born in the order of the kids your parents have due to experiencing different emotional boundaries from an early age. It’s normal, it’s the natural human spirit.

From the get go don’t settle for less or anything that you are not willing to deal with. It only leads to unsuitable partners. Attracting true love and I’m not just talking about a date of a few dates or a one night stand requires you to get very crystal clear on the kinds of qualities you want and don’t want in a mate. Love conquers all. Becoming involved with someone who has traits that are not agreeable to you will only lead too disappointment. At that point in time they are loving something else more than you. We can’t change no one. Everybody has their priorities straight. They do what they want to do. Don’t be someone’s priority when you are just their option. Be specific about physical characteristics, lifestyle preferences, and how they will relate to you in a relationship.

For true love to enter into your life, you need to create the right mental, emotional and physical conditions for it. You have to be ready and free kind of like loving like you never been hurt before. This means not just making time for love but truly believing that you are truly worth it feeling one-hundred (100%) percent secured within your own-self. If you feel any negativity towards your own-self then you have not mastered the most important skill in attracting a partner loving your own-self.

Why spend another day unhappy in love. Don’t rely on others to find true happiness and love. We are already full of happiness and love. Create a new kind of relationship unlike any other that you’ve ever experience before. Go back to being a kid and ask yourself what makes you happy. What were the things you did to bring joy into your life. Do more of the things you like and love. Find a relationship with an equal partner from whom you can be your complete self with. A relationship filled with easy, flowing love that gives you energy and brings joy to channel throughout your entire life. The relationship you’ve been lodging for starts right here, right now, with you. May God Bless you always and be blessed enough to share the blessings with others.