Dating : Men love these 3 traits. Which one do you have?

Ladies let’s pretend you haven’t learned these from me. Sorry to my Men-Friends we still love you.

Guys will never admit this, but sadly they are really attracted to them. It is a truly hard world especially in relationships, but the way that a man develops his attractions switches wasn’t created during the social media age but in the very “Machiavellian” selfish -fucked -up kind of world. It is the battle of sexes after all, right?

So to cut to the chase a guy is Primarily attracted to you when:

1)They are attracted to you if they see other men want you. Simple as that, the more guys want you the more they are attracted to you. So my dear lovely lady it is ok to show your significant other that yes, he is the only one for you but the problem is when you make him feel like there is no competition, and honey there is competition. I will explain this with an example let’s say that you had an ex-boyfriend and your guy is aware. As kind as intuitive as it is if you disappear even if you are over him this will make him feel like you are talking to him or even worse you are keeping a secret contact.If a guy thinks that there are other people in the background (threats) he becomes a sexual competitor.

2)You are selfish. Men love the selfish woman, just think about your girlfriend who is a bitch she has a lot of dudes liking her, right? To some men their parents were selfish, and by that I mean their moms were single parents and they have used the child as a way to get attention from their main partners and as a result, the child never really got a chance to interact with their mother because their mother was selfish as she was worried about her needs. The mother never has listened to her kid because she was so worried about fulfilling her needs through her child, a child that she never had heard. As a result, the child and later on the man will fall for a woman who is selfish because they remind him of his mother and would try to fix or pursue a relationship with his mother or with a woman who reminds him of his mother. That is the way of dealing and handling pain. The selfish woman will never give enough emotion which leads to insecurity. The more they don’t give validation the more will make their partners work harder and seek it. Distance brings people always closer.

3)You create drama. I don’t mean too much though, but a little headache is always welcome and fruitful. The drama will always bring your partner closer. Never be fully satisfied, always have something to mention, not whining class fully promote high health standards. You can test this as a joke with a partner you don’t completely like or care about like, experiment, break up with him, find reasons to argue, exaggerate about little things that he doesn’t have or he does disappear and come back after a couple of days and see what happens.

That was all for today in our small classroom -or big- you know this. All the above are meant in the best way and from experience hoping that they would be helpful to you. Let me know what do you think.