Dating : RELATIONSHIP TOXIC MESSAGES and CORRECTIONS

TOXIC: Do only you, be you, make yourself happy.
CORRECT: Learn to work with people around you and know when to leave if necessary. Make yourself happy, make sure everyone is happy too.

TOXIC: Don’t give to people who aren’t giving to you.
CORRECT: Learn to work with people around you and know when to leave if necessary.

TOXIC: Kill people and destroy their properties if they cheat on you.
CORRECT: Decide to stay or leave if you get cheated on.

TOXIC: You can not co-exist with your in-laws.
CORRECT: Learn to work with people around you and know when to leave if necessary.

TOXIC: There are certain tasks you cannot do in the house.
CORRECT: Learn to work with people around you and know when to leave if necessary.

TOXIC: Finding a marriage partner is just as easy as finding a sex partner.
CORRECT: Marriage is not the same as sex.

TOXIC: It is wrong to leave an abusive relationship.
CORRECT: It is not wrong.

TOXIC: If people don’t call often, they don’t care.
CORRECT: Learn to work with people around you and know when to leave if necessary.

TOXIC: Never apologize.
CORRECT: If you are wrong, apologize. Sometimes, even if you are not wrong, still apologize.

TOXIC: You can put your relationship issues on social media, publicly ridicule your partner and still move back with them later.
CORRECT: Social media doesn’t really care about you. No one who goes through public ridicule will ever completely get over it.

TOXIC: The right relationship has no issues forever.
CORRECT: The right relationship is like entrepreneurship, up, down, up-down, eureka, down, up, eureka!

TOXIC: You can be an arse hole every day and emotionally abuse your partner all the time and they will still stay.
CORRECT: Learn to work with people around you and know when to leave if necessary.

TOXIC: You can cheat on your partner, but they can’t cheat on you.
CORRECT: No one has a monopoly over cheating.

TOXIC: Catching a cheating partner is the end of the world.
CORRECT: Death is the end of the world.

TOXIC: It is ok to cheat on people who trust you.
CORRECT: No it is not.

TOXIC: There is only only one type of relationship.
CORRECT: No, there are many. Human sexuality is diverse.

TOXIC: The first solution to all issues in a relationship is to walk away.
CORRECT: Learn to work with people around you and know when to leave if necessary.

TOXIC: You can always find a perfect replacement.
CORRECT: No one steps in the same river twice. Time changes everything, sometimes for the good, some times for the worse.

TOXIC: The perfect partner exists
CORRECT: The perfect partner does not exist because they were created in the mind of an imperfect person. Real people have multiple flaws.