h2>Dating : Two Time Management Mistakes That Will Make Your Potential Dating Partners Not Take You Seriously…
All too often both men and women send one of the two or both specific signals that they have such poor time management skills, that making plans with them to meet and get to know each other is going to be a challenge full of unncessarily obstacles. If you are looking for a serious relationship, it is important that you don’t make these two mistakes that are so easy to avoid:
- Taking Way Too Long To Respond To A Dating App Message of Text
If someone writes you a message on Bumble or Hinge and it takes you five days to write back for no good reason, and you don’t even acknowledge / apologize for that delay, it is likely to be very discouraging to the person on the other end to continue talking to you. And, even if they write back-you just raised their skepticism about who you are for no good reason. Most people, who actively date, have had their share of being flaked on and ghosted on, and they all eager to try to eliminate as much of that as possible from the future interacftions. An unreasonable delay in communication in the very beginning of you talking to someone new uggests that even if you are not a flake, connecting with you and making plans with you will likely be a pain.
There is, of course, an easy fix to this. You can make sure you respond to messages promptly, or if you were late to respond to a message, acknowldge, apologize and prove that you are not a flake by communicating better right after that delay. If the person you started talking to received at leaset 2–3 prompt responses, the first delay isn’t going to matter.
2. Having A Very Limited Availability
If arranging a date or even a phone call with you is a task that requires a lot of persistence, or if you are only available to meet on weekends, a person who is looking for a serious relationship is going to be discouraged from putting effort into your interaction, because trying to get serious and being excluded from your weekday life simply don’t go together.
Solution? Only you can be in charge of your time and your schedule. If you want to develop a romantic relationship, you have to make it a priority and shuffle other things, including your work commitments around, if necessary. If you don’t do it for yourself, no one else will; and your boss will certainly not ask you to work less and focus on your personal life more.
Eliminating the first issue among the above two is easier than the second one, but both mistakes are equally important to avoid in order for you not to sabotage a beginning of any interaction that has a potential to grow into a loving relationship.
