Dating : What Women Find Attractive In A Man

Women love leadership skills and a man with a busy life. Don’t get this misconstrued with a busy life; he’s too busy to even have a relationship. Still, you are busy enough to be firm on what times you are available to fit her in. Because at the end of the day, she does like being a priority.

But women don’t like being the first priority always, so they want to see you establishing things. Leadership skills are essential because it shows that you are powerful and know what you’re talking about. And you go after and conquer what you want.

And when you have a busy schedule, this also shows that your life is of value to yourself. You’ve built for yourself, and the woman wants to see more about this; it’s intriguing to them.

There is no bigger turn-on to a woman than a man that a woman can learn from — a man who can give her mental stimulation.

Mental stimulation, whereas she can go back and forth with him, whereas he gets what she is saying, and at the end of the day, he challenges her to learn more. This is significant.

It shows them that you’re invested in trying to get to know her. And in the attraction phase especially, it doesn’t give them the red flags that you were going hot and heavy too soon by being always a last-minute man.

You take time to get to know this woman, you plan out dates, and you get her excited to see you. Meaning you’re busy all week, but Friday night is the time that you’re gonna be able to see each other because of the fact that you’ve made plans, and you focus on that.

A woman wants a decisive male. Someone that is decisive and knows what the plans are. Meaning he doesn’t go back and forth with her makes her spend a lot of energy. Decisiveness shows a lot of power and women are attracted to power.

You’re passionate about something. Maybe you are golfing, and in a golf tournament or in Golf Club or whatever it is, you do something. Maybe in the winter times, you go skiing actively. Or perhaps even a side hustle.

What is that you’re passionate about?

You have two different things that go on here, and I want to be clear about this. You are the type of man that is opinionated but not respectful. That’s not what I mean.

You’re a man that is opinionated in your beliefs. Whatever it is that comes to fruition, for whatever conversation is happening in that particular moment. Your dialogue and how you communicate your opinion is respectful of others. You’re not always saying yes, and you tend to disagree or agree when the time feels right for you because you are holding yourself to a standard.