Dating : Why My Husband Always Wants Me To Suck His Cock Again And Again

I had him lay on the bed and will then blindfolded him. I gave him head and took breaks every thirty seconds or so to take sips from two cups of water, one with ice cold water, the other with hot water.

Changing the temperature of my mouth was supposed to make him go crazy. Mostly, it confused him. Why all the breaks? Why did everything feel so wet but not in a good way?

It was a total fail, and I became a bit skeptical of blowjob advice. From that point on, I would just try to suck and lick as vigorously and thoroughly as I could.

But then I entered my blowjob renaissance. Over the last few years, giving head went from something I did to please my partner to something I did for the sheer pleasure of doing. I genuinely get off on giving head.

Learning to love blowjobs made me a lot more serious about giving them. I didn’t want to give one that was just good or good enough — I want to deliver some professional-quality mouth action.

Now, I study it like an art. When I see someone give a great blowjob in a porn video, I don’t just get off to it — I take notes. I read people’s blowjob stories. I look at listicles filled with blowjob advice. And I give myself time to experiment.

I realized that there’s so much more I can do when I’m down there. Until I started focusing on my partner’s pleasure, I thought of blowjobs as a very streamlined activity. Just figure out the two or three things that feel best and do them repeatedly until you’re tired or he comes (in my case, until I’m tired).

Now, I approach blowjobs with a much more experimental and playful attitude. I just do whatever seems fun and see what kind of reaction it gets.