How to tell him that I love him? – Information, help and discussion site for 11-20 year olds
Last modification: July 9, 2020
Your decision is made, you want to tell him that you love him. Here are some ideas before taking the plunge:
- Take the time you need to assess your chances of success: observe the person you love and see how they react to your presence. If she doesn’t seem to show interest in you, despite your repeated approaches, maybe it’s better to let it go?
If, on the contrary, she smiles at you, seeks your company, talks to you willingly, etc. This person likes you and that’s already a good point. All of these signs show friendly interest, if not more. - Talk directly to the person you love. Don’t ask a boyfriend to speak for you. It’s best to hear for yourself what he or she thinks of you. And yes: who does not risk anything, has nothing!
- Trust your intuition. Sometimes feelings can lead to imagining things that are not real. For example, you can desire so much that the other loves you and end up believing that it is true. Basically, you know if you have chances or not. If you listen to your intuition, you will know how to sort things out very well.
- Approach the person you love by showing your friendship at first. Make yourself known, talk about yourself and also seek to discover the other, what he / she likes, his activities. Find common ground between you, it will give you something to talk about.
- Stay true to yourself, naturally.
Tell him « I love you »
It’s amazing how hard those three little words can be to say. By revealing your feelings, you open your heart and you take the risk of disappointment if the answer is not what you hoped for. You have to prepare yourself for this possibility, but whoever dares nothing has nothing.
Exposing your feelings too quickly increases the risk, that’s for sure, but it can also lead to a great relationship.
Protect yourself as little as possible by taking the time to assess your chances before declaring yourself.
How do I know if the other loves me?
There is no one-size-fits-all answer, but the important thing is to trust yourself based on what you see and feel. You will never be able to be in the other’s head but certain signs can help you.
- You see that the other is looking for your company, is interested in you, tries to be with you often, has tender gestures, etc.
- Or on the contrary, the other provokes you constantly, blushes when you approach, is clumsy with you.
His reactions depend on his character and then on yours as well.
The best way to know if the other loves you is to ask him directly, without going through an intermediary (your friends or friends). Going through other people to find out the other’s feelings towards you can create a lot of misunderstanding.
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