Make your man in love – 15 tips to make him fall in love
Make oneself desired
The old adage « Run away from me, I follow you » has not aged a bit. Because you often want what you don’t have, don’t make yourself too available to him at the start. Like the valiant knights of old tales, let him come to you and earn you. There is no question of playing the scornful or scared princess – an attitude that would only push her away – but rather not to give her too much of your time and to show her that he is not the only one to have importance in your existence.
Be at ease in society
Hard to admit, but when a man is having a hard time making up his mind, the approval of the gaze of others can help him bond. In society, be enthusiastic and at ease. Feign confidence and cultivate your charisma. When he sees that other people like you – in a friendly way – he will probably realize that you are not just his.
Do not confuse sex and tenderness
If the stories of the buttocks sometimes give rise to many demonstrations of tenderness, it is very rare that they lead to deeper feelings. Of course, nothing is impossible, but if you feel that your partner dreams of a sexual friendship more than a relationship with rose water, run away before – really – attaching yourself …
Blame him intelligently
A cliché that is so common among men: women spend their time complaining about their partner. Don’t agree with yours, but don’t let it all slip away. Before you let him know that you are unhappy, ask yourself if the problem you are concerned about is really one. On the other hand, if this is the case, do not hesitate – it would be unfortunate if your man confused you with the mop in the hall. By prioritizing your expectations, you will complain less… but better.
Be part of your daily life
To mark the heart, you have to mark the mind. Insinuate yourself casually into his daily life. Create rituals. The cinema on Sundays, a naughty text message in the morning, discovering new restaurants, registering for a joint activity … it’s up to you to find what will create a special bond between your two souls.
Put him in confidence
The feelings are out of control. But, sometimes, some human beings prevent themselves from becoming too attached, for fear of suffering. Men are part of it. If you feel your partner is one of them, show them that you are a « good girl. » Tell him, casually, your loyalty in relationships – romantic and friendly – and prove to him that you are strong enough not to listen to the first passer-by who will count on you.
Have your own thing
Any relationship is an exchange. And for a man to fall in love, there is no question of letting you get caught up in his only areas of interest and nod at the slightest of his proposals. Let him discover your world. Whether it’s country music or palace bars, it doesn’t matter. The essential ? May he have the impression that he is learning things by your side and that your presence can only enrich his existence. It also involves some particular signs: extravagant make-up, a mania – funny – which is specific to you, an immoderate taste for the color red… all that could define you in her mind as « the girl who… ».
Give him space
When he is in love, the two of you will probably have a long time together. But, until then, give him some space. Forcing someone to see you regularly doesn’t make them feel more attached. On the contrary. Allow him to be away from you, to wonder why he hasn’t heard from you, to reflect on your relationship. Out of sight out of mind ? Not necessarily.
To be enthusiastic
Without going overboard and hypocrisy, don’t be afraid to show your enthusiasm. A man who realizes that he can participate in the happiness of his partner feels desirable. Flatter his ego without going overboard and maybe your little one will suddenly want to spend all his time with you.
Surprise him
One of the big reasons for separations: weariness. On the contrary, the surprise seduces and intrigues. Show yourself elusive, both in your demeanor and your looks – boyish on Monday, flower girl on Friday. Show him that you are as interested in decoration as in video games, that you know how to be wise on certain occasions and deeply sassy on others, take him to the green then to the opera, reveal yourself as sensitive as it is strong. It’s not about disguising yourself – he would fall in love with someone you’re not – just making him feel that he hasn’t walked around your personality in a few evenings and that with you. , he will not be bored.
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Play the competition
Since you want to prove to him that you are a « good girl », do not play with fire by being seduced in front of his eyes. But allow yourself to slip into him that you are having dinner with a friend, that you are going to join your confidant, that you are celebrating the birthday of an old acquaintance – male, that goes without saying. In short, let him discover – almost for himself – that he is not the only male around you. Isn’t the fear of losing the other one of the breeding grounds for love?
Don’t try to change it
While fine detail can be changed, an individual’s deep character is one to take or leave. If you have too many complaints about which to charge it, 2 solutions: accept its nature or leave it. Overwhelming him with criticism will not change him. Worse, this behavior risks a priori to scare him away. When faced with a desperately cold partner, don’t praise the couple. It won’t convince him to fall in love. Because these things cannot be controlled.
Fight his fear of losing him
If you are in love with a man who is not, you probably have to worry about losing him at any time. Mistake. Because your actions, your attitude, your way of accepting everything from him exudes this fear. And if your partner understands it, he will profit bluntly. Admit that a man chasing you constantly is distracting but not exactly attractive. The solution: keep in mind that a person can be perfectly fulfilled in a relationship, without necessarily being in love with their partner. So, stop believing that he is in danger of leaving you every moment. It is by stressing that you will provoke this heartbreak yourself.
Don’t be impatient
If love at first sight exists, they are not numerous. Feelings are cultivated with patience and, in order to mature, sometimes need several seasons. Sprinkle your relationship with kindness and avoid oppression. Those who know how to wait do not necessarily come at the right time, but the more persevering put more chances on their side.
Knowing how to give up
When you’ve tried everything, time has passed, you’ve struggled to show yourself in your best light and your feelings don’t change, you have to know how to give up. Love is not an exact science. This is undoubtedly what makes its charm. If you feel that your man will not pass the simple bar of attachment, take your courage in both hands and walk off the stage with your head held high. All human relationships are based on compatibility. You will probably find a partner more suited to your character.
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