POF : About Me section

POF : About Me section

Here is what I wrote in the About Me section of my profile:

« Greetings members of Plenty of Fish,

Based on my observations (and experiences), I conclude that many members of the POF community are destroying my confidence and being unsympathetic (or apathetic) about situations that I go through on a daily basis. You do not know who I am as a person until you take the initiative to speak like an adult. I feel like I am running a daycare over here. I am not saying this because of prejudice, I am saying it to be honest.

I am looking for someone who would treat me like a human being and would provide me with common decency (and mutual respect). You treat me how you want to be treated, and you treat me with the same respect that you claim to seek. I refuse to be disrespected because there is no verifiable evidence of me disrespecting anyone. In fact, I signed up to this dating site for the right reasons: to seek a connection and seek someone who has ambition, character, personality, and genuine interest in looking for a connection.

Also, I will not be providing complete financial support to you because that is not what I am looking for. This is the 21st century. I am looking for someone who is willing to work for what they look for and what they have.

If you are in a relationship or are not looking for anything on here, what are you doing with your life (besides wasting it)? You could use that time towards looking for jobs, taking on new interests, traveling, fixing your relationship, and finding someone in the physical world.

Also, I signed up on this dating site to find someone who will take the initiative to meet in person. I did not sign up to look for pen pals at all, that’s been dead. I understand you get busy from time to time, but remember, God gave us 24 hours a day, so you could at least use 30 minutes to meet. If you are not willing to meet in person, keep going. Time is very limited and tomorrow is not promised.

Also, I am not interested in individuals who judge people based on looks. Our appearance is given to us by nature, so I would honestly be distraught by you judging me based on how I look. I want someone who loves me for who I am as a person, not just how I look. Also, I honestly do not care about looks much because, as mentioned, looks are natural.

I know how old I am and what my entire birthday is. I have access to my birth certificate and my state ID, so please do not disrespect my age. Also, please do not assume that I look younger (or older) than I am, unless you are saying it as a compliment. I consider it to be disrespectful.

Overall, please be honest about your intentions and what you seek. If I have to find out something that is important and may affect our standing, I know something is wrong and I will not hesitate to get to the bottom of it.

If you have read through my profile, more power to you. If you are genuinely interested, please message me. Thank you!

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By. mboliver205