POF : Dating site are no good for me.
Having no luck on these dating sites. Absolutely none. In real life I do not have such a problem. On these dating sites I feel invisible. Really strikes your self esteem.
By. dillinone
POF : « My kids will almost come first, and if you can’t understand that, scroll on ». Yes, we know. We understand that. Anyone in their right mid would understand, but you don’t need to jam it down our throats in such an aggressive way before we even message you.
Social and dating sites/apps and girls in general has been a very touchy personal issue for me forever the last 20 years plus and to this day nothing works for me with getting with any girls I want for anything. Dating apps all of them. No one ever gets back to me on POF I deleted it after 6 years with no success. Tinder, hinge and bumble I barely use them again never get any matches if I do which is very rarely I do they don’t bother make no effort in talking to or they do very little and you never hear from them again. Most recent girls I’ve attempted with one who I met few years ago ignored me on Instagram after asking to meet up for a drink and another off tinder who blocked me after she stopped talking
Me too. I do better in real life. I have some charm and charisma that can not be detected on a profile. Plus I don’t have it in me to try hard when creating a profile.
A woman I work with is the opposite. In real life she is completely ignored by men yet on dating apps she is a superstar with more replies than she has time to answer.
I hate dating apps also. My charm doesn’t translate lol. But with POF I’ve gotten 2 girls numbers/ multiple dates in the past month and a half are so. The first month was a bunch of learning and frustration lol. So many fakes. You have to learn to read the bio and spot them, or waste your likes and messages. It’s all a numbers game for real. Hit your limits every day. The no personality girl is going to have a full inbox every day/ week they check. They get a bunch a scammers/ lames also, so not just us guys lol. You have to stand out in looks, or charm. I am super new to anything online dating lol but find most girls want you to hound them respectfully lol. I’m texting a few more girls with promise so this is what I’m judging from.
Good luck. With my confidence spiking I’m ready to just start hounding with a mask on lol. Because girls love photo shop online lol. The girls I’ve met have packed on a few pounds since their profile was updated lol. A shame, because I still smashed lol. No need to hide your updated look.
They arent really good period. Before apps people used to go on websites and chat and actually meet. While it was still hard varying degree of success was higher imo. Apps are a numbers game. Ive been on them since covid and it isnt like in years past. I get matches and or convos where I stop hearing from them. Doesnt help that the new pof live stream is for people who really want attention and nothing more. Personally cannot wait till covid goes away and I can mingle with women again the natural way.
Maybe you should consider what works best for you. Dating sites people are less organic and incredibly artificial
And this is why I don’t like dating apps because they bring down on person selfesteem and confidence in destroys them because you’re like the invisible nobody that doesn’t mean nothing try feeling that way on the real world a and a dating app makes it feel worse these dating apps are nothing but solved destructing time bombs that will destroy any person self confidence in a steam just because they can’t get no matches in can’t get nor keep living the same boring lonely doll life d*** day out of ever changes can’t find a girlfriend can’t find any happiness at all can’t meet nobody can’t go on dates And people come up with excuses when a do set up A-day it comes with an excuse not to meet your rents repeat recycle through the garbage