POF : How to message a woman who says she likes long slow kisses/hugs and or cuddling in her profile?
If I say I also enjoy those in a first message am I too aggressive or insulting? If I don’t, am a too cold or hurting my chances by not sharing something we have in common?
By. classclown8
I’ve also read on women’s profiles that they like skiing, traveling, and dancing.
It doesn’t mean that they want to do those things *right now*.
I don’t think it’s aggressive or insulting to mention it in a first msg. That said, I’m not convinced it’s wise or useful either. Heck, I’m not even sure it’s necessary. Conversely, there’s nothing wrong with not mentioning it either. In a first msg, try convey something about who you are, why you could be right for her, and what you find appealing about her & her profile.
If it works, the kissing and cuddling will come in their own good time.
also might i add that in my exp, such profiles end up messaging me, not because i’m attractive, but because more often than not such profiles are sex bots
By not acknowledging that at all whatsoever. Every other guy is, so be the one that stands out and talk about something else.
Pick something else out of her profile to ask about. This one is needy so youre forewarned.
a woman or even a man who puts that on their profile, and you’re worried you’d be too straight forward…. You’d be asking or telling one person what you enjoy, mean while the person you message is telegraphing it to the entire dating community.
I put i love fishing and if a woman tells me she loves fishing too i’m not about to get angry at her, that would just be insane.
now if you’re talking about telling her that you want to kiss her right now and there is no past history, okay yeah, sure coming on strong, in the same manner that in my example a woman says lets go fishing tomorrow and i haven’t even gotten to know her.
the main thing that will make or break a response is whether or not she finds you physically attractive.
Don’t talk to her about that, seriously, don’t, if you even mention anything intimate in any way which isn’t light flirting within the first few messages she will ghost you so fast your head will spin and you’ll wonder if she ever existed.
It just isn’t worth asking, its probably a trap to weed out guys who think of anything physical and mention it, a woman could say she likes wrestling a guy to the ground, grinding him into dust and squeezing him like a lemon until he begs for mercy on her profile and I would avoid that topic like the plague because she will up and run at the first mention of it.
When she says long slow kisses she really wants you to suck on her ass like a jelly donut so anti up on the ass eating my guy