POF : Women complain of short messages from guys, but then the women responses are super short.
Where I am there are not many active women. At least I see very few online when I look. I’ve sent back messages to a few. Usually I send at least a few sentences with a question. They will respond to the question, but usually that is it. Less than 20 words most of the time. And they never ask me any questions.
By. WarpedTrekker
Dude… listen.
Give what you receive. Don’t waste your time on silly long creative messages. If they find an interest in you, they will show it regardless what they say.
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Edit: to add more since im done my previous activity.
1: when accounts recieve 100s of messages. You have ot be fair and consider that they have filled inboxes.
2. A lof of guys are messaging and htey have to go trhough a lot of trash before they find who they are looking for.
3. Maybe they are as someone mentioned just looking for attention.
A lof of times you see comments like « no 1 word messages » or silly junk like that. I never go more than hey there. if they are too difficult to talk to as in no or little conversation skills, you have to either give up or change your goal from relationship to 1 night stand. . Some cases they are really unable to have one.
Personally I have 1 rule. If my time is wasted and I put in too much work trying to get some kind of connection or interest and it feels like i wasted my time, I go from looking for relationship to 1 night stand because once you sleep with them, that lack of conversational skills go out the window.
I’ve had so many short nondescript greeting messages that show that he’s shotgunning and didn’t read my profile. Then you also have those that send a long, say nothing message, who also didn’t read my profile and is again shotgunning.
If they guy says at least one comment from my profile, I will put in the ‘work’ and read his profile. If interested I will mention something from his profile, with either comment or question.
If I’m not interested, I simply tell him that I am not interested and depending on why, I will let him know. For example: « I am not interested in a long distance relationship ».
Let’s just put this way plenty of fish women do not want to hold a conversation they’re only looking for attention they don’t want to get to know any guy they want to get a lot of messages and it makes them feel good it’s an ego boost and I know people are going to come in and bash me for saying all this oh you have such a bad attitude you have a bitter attitude I wonder you don’t get no messages first and foremost I don’t care what you think of me but I have my own opinion about how this app is and I’ve experienced it so I really don’t give a f*** what you think of me and if you want to say that you can go f*** yourself for all I care.
I do this sometimes just to see how long the dude will keep responding. Males hate being rejected but can’t take the hint when we « sugarcoat » our disinterest. Had a dude message me and I straight up told him his friend was more attractive, let me know if he gets divorced. Dude messages back TWO weeks later still trying and then asks « why are you acting like that ». CLEARLY I’M NOT FUCKING INTERESTED. If a person is interested, you’ll know. Short replies won’t happen. Y’all (males) are simply not smart enough to move along when it’s been made abundantly clear that the woman has no interest in you and that’s really fucking said.