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Tinder : Anyone else having zero fun on this app?

Tinder : Anyone else having zero fun on this app?


This app is not at ALL what it used to be… also open to the idea that I’m hideously ugly, but I really doubt it.

I have 20+ matches that Tinder is hiding from me (the ones that you have to buy Gold to see). I probably swipe 100+ women every day, and my number of « locked » matches increases by one or two, but I never actually get to their card in my deck. Every couple days I actually match with a woman, and send a message, only for her to end up being a web cam girl, or for her to unmatch me entirely without exchanging a single message. I’ve encountered 5 web cam girls, 2 of which who had very convincing profiles, and I wasted a lot of time actually talking to them before they asked me to vote for their web cam show and my credit card info…

I used Tinder extensively from 2014-2017 and had 100+ actual matches. I met my ex girlfriend there. Became single again earlier this year and just rejoined Tinder last month. I dress well, have a good job, my own place, decent looking, interesting profile with pictures of me traveling the world, etc… But nonetheless my confidence is being destroyed. The only thing I can think of is that I don’t work out, so I’m not ripped. Average, slim body. Shouldn’t be a dealbreaker, tbh.

Thinking of deleting my account. I wish I was having as much fun as everyone on this reddit seems to have. Anyone else in the same boat as me?


By. BringBack4Glory

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  1. Stop using the app for maybe 4-5 days, after that set your settings to 1 km, at you will instantly match 3 or so from the « hidden » cards, maybe more. Good luck

  2. Go make real connections with women. Don’t rely solely on tinder to meet girls. It’s possible, trust me. People have been doing it for thousands of years.

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