Tinder : Story Time – Week of August 05, 2019
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So like a two weeks ago, I matched with this guy and we went on a date. It went well actually we have great conversations, he was cool and it all seemed great. I definitely didn’t think he would text back but he did and he even set up for a second date.
Second date came and the day of he didn’t text me, he has me on social media’s and just ghosted me
Well just wished I had an answer as why he decided to ghost me
Cool tho
Hey all, success story: my tinder date with my girlfriend took place 5 years ago and we’ve been engaged for a few months now. We moved in together 20 days after we had our first date. She’s the love of my life and rocks my world daily. People generally laugh when we tell them how we met, but we’re inseparable, we don’t fight and have mutual respect and admiration for one another. We were both 40 and divorced with kids when we met. We’ll grow old together. True story. Hope you get lucky too 🙂
Not much of a story but I’m 99% sure tinder matches me with girls I swiped no on.
How do you people ask to someone to step up the game?
Like there is this girl a have been seeing for a few weeks now and I don’t think she get my hints.
I want to tell her that I would like us to be more « physical » without looking like crazy.
Between Bumble, Tinder, Hinge, and CMB, which app is most likely to produce something more serious? Thinking of going back again but wanna just expend my energy on just one.
I live in a metro city and it seems like most of the relationships my friends get in are from Tinder. CMB seems like more wholesome people, Hinge has a small user base, and Bumble seems like a bunch of dudes who just want me to stroke their ego.
I just reported some bottom feeder for giving my number TO HIS FRIEND after a perfectly normal introductory conversation. I give up.
i haven’t been able to keep a conversation on this app with anyone for months. but i recently matched with this guy on the weekend and we haven’t been texting a crazy amount or anything, but i think we’ve definitely gotten to a nice flow/ease in our conversation. i know it’s way too early to tell or anything but god it’s been nice to connect with someone. i hope it continues to get better. but i wont get my hopes up or anything because i went out with another guy for 4 months last time (back in feb.) and surprise surprise… he ghosted me. i hope this turns out better than that.
I don’t have a link because I’m on mobile, but I posted a couple times in these threads late last year about how I had finally met somebody that made me delete this app and I wanted to give you all an update. This is my first real relationship, we had been officially dating for just over eight months until I broke up with her last night.
I decided it needed to happen because I’m just not on the same page she is, and it doesn’t feel right or fair to stay with somebody who loves you way more than you love them when I’m so uncertain that I will ever get to her level. I knew it had to happen but I didn’t think it would be so fucking hard. I feel so horrible over hurting a person like this I’ve been physically ill, I have no appetite, I can hardly concentrate on work. I thought moving on wouldn’t be that bad but this has me fucked up. I’m shaken almost to my core. Fuck.
Went on a date with a guy that lives in a neighboring town but works in my town. Right off the bat he was completely different than he had come off from our convos on snap. He was oddly quiet and I felt strange being the only one talking and making an effort to get to know him. I greeted him with a side hug and I asked if he wanted to walk around or stop in shops and such. When we walked into the first shop, he put his arms around my waist and I was completely thrown off. I brushed him off and continued to walk around and he would just keep doing it and he still didn’t say much. He gave off really creepy vibes while we were in the stores so I asked if he wanted to walk further down in town. He ended up groping me in public thinking it was okay to do so and claimed he was just “an affectionate” person and “didn’t care what other people saw”. I’m quite done with meeting people and deleted the app.
Downloaded Tinder Saturday. Had 1 dtf but couldn’t cause I didn’t think I’d get a response that night. I’ve been having fun tho just conversing with the women in my area.
This will probably get removed. I feel like I’m going crazy and can’t find a way to cancel my subscription! I’ve searched all through tinder on the pc, my iTunes on the pc and of course the app https://i.imgur.com/HsVYSlW.jpg
Musings of a bisexual: I really wish Tinder would let me put different settings for men and women. I’m 23F, would be fine with a woman virtually any age. With men I’ve decided to look for around 25-35, because god the immaturity of men in their early 20s is really wearing on me.
Also would be great if I could set up different bios for men and women. For women it’d be like something genuinely romantic about wanting to get to know them. For men it’d be like… just gimme your dick and go.
(No offense to the kind men on this sub. Just, Tinder men are generally a handful.)
So I found out that Tinder and other dating apps ramp up whenever conventions (and subsequently nerds) are in town, and I’ve finally managed to get a meetup after only matches that lead to nowhere. Easier to flow with people when you know their interests first off.
It’s me, the Call of Duty tinder date chic (check my post history for that doozy).
Anyways, have a few potential new matches I’m chatting with so there’s still hope for something better. I’m moving into the slightly older crowd, just seems we have more in common and I’ve always gone for guys a few years older than me anyways so we’ll see how it goes.
Still wish guy1 would hit me up though. Even though he’s a flakey douche bag he’s super fucking hot and our conversations flow so easily. Ah well, we’ll have to wait and see how that goes, ball is in his court now.
I keep matching with people who’s profiles I’ve never seen, and it’s saying I’ve superliked them. It’s happened like four times now and every time it’s always with people who I’d never swipe right for, it it possible someones on my account, or is it most likely i’m just miss swiping?
It’s been a long time since i didn’t have a nice relationship thanks to tinder. A few hookups but a lot of ghost after. In my previous city last year i met very nice people and got a fwb for 8 months who ended when i left the city..
I remain optimistic ehe
OK, so I’ve been holding out on giving a true opinion on Hinge but now I can honestly say it’s been more than worth it. I get tons of matches and I’ve had to cancel a date or two because I simply couldn’t keep up with them all. Feels good man.
Three highlights:
Went on a date with a nurse on Friday. It went well, towards the end of the night we couldn’t keep our hands off each other. We were walking to the train station where we said goodbye. We shared one last kiss and I decided to try one of those kissing « tips » you read in cosmo or something (what the ***hell*** was I thinking) and…you could see the spark fade from her eyes. This morning, after days of no contact I get a text saying she’s too busy with work, and is too stressed to be dating. So yeah, if any of you redditors see me on the street, feel free to slap me. I won’t sue. I normally don’t reply to those rejection texts but this time I figured I’d do it differently so dropped a « Sorry to hear you’re going through a rough time. If things get better you have my number. Take care. » Not expecting anything but eh, why not.
Went on a date with another nurse the next day. It was pretty good. Physically the attraction is there, lot of handholding and kissing but the conversation didn’t flow as easily. The convos were good, not great. She asked me on a second date and I agreed. She is so sweet so I hope we can find the chemistry.
Finally…my prayers have been answered. I don’t know how this happened but I matched with a taller than me, well endowed woman, who is looking for a hookup. She invited me round said if it goes well it can become a fwb sort of thing. So now I’ve sworn off porn and alcohol for the next two weeks (when she’s back in town). Gotta do my best to make sure it all goes right. Any tips, the wiser, more experienced would like to share with me?
Hung out with one Tinder FWB. Another T FWB, who usually sexts me at 1 am, just turned 20 and decided she wants a serious relationship. So she called at 1 am to talk about it. I was half asleep and told her this isn’t the time. So, we’ll meet up later this week for date, talk & …
Had two first T dates with women closer to my age. Neither went all that well. I generally do way better with younger women. Chatted a bit with some other matches, but nothing firm yet. My IRL (non Tinder) girl is taking more of my time. I suspect she’ll win in the end.
Matched with a guy who seemed cool. We texted through the night but the conversation was weird. He was demanding that I go to an atm with his passcode so I could buy myself a sex toy for the night. It just got stranger after that.
He called and texted at 4 and 7am to tell me that he was sorry, I was just a joke to him. He said that tinder made it easy for him to dehumanize me and I was only being used for entertainment. He wanted to push me as far as he could by saying things like how he wanted to put cocaine on my clit. He then unmatched and asked me to delete his number.
And that is almost exactly how tinder goes for me every time. Usually they admit it but don’t apologize, so I guess that dude was cool for that.
I went on this date last week, it started off pretty awkward, she was there with her friend and we went on this ride at the fair and she dropped her phone and smashed the fuck out if lol. So within the first 20 minutes I thought it was going to be a disaster, ended up being a decent date and she wants to hookup, but she lives an hour away so I’m not sure if I want to make the trip this weekend but maybe because it’s a sure thing.
I keep having excellent dates with people who I feel great chemistry with, who then tell me they’re « just looking for friends ». 🙁
So my girlfriend of 5 months that I met on Bumble broke up with me and I was devastated and felt like shit for the past 3 days. But today I told myself “fuck it!!” I deserve so much better. I decided to then put myself out there and I created a tinder account again after like 5 months of absence. Hopefully I get the extra boost. I already got some matches in Bumble but waiting for Tinder to kick in.
Wish me luck lads.
I was mainly just fucking around on tinder for the past few months but after a recent event I decided to try new things and also put in some effort. It’s weird cause I’m suddenly getting a ton more matches and dates then ever before. Even managed to get a date with a girl from my town outside of tinder. We hung out a few times but it’s a little messy cause she dated someone I was friends with back in the day. The dates I’ve gotten through tinder haven’t all been winners but I have met some really fucking cool people. So far the best one has been with a girl I saw last Thursday that went really well despite her being flaky. We tried to figure out a way to get me invited as her plus one to a wedding she was going to so we could get drunk but the bride said it was too short notice. Excited to see if I see her again. On Wednesday I have a date with a girl 4 years older then me which is cool and Saturday I’m getting drinks with another girl.
4 matches, 1 responded, got her number, ghosted me after I asked for verification
I have two dates lined up this week after my period of app-stinence. One is with a nurse who is really quite hot and seems nice but I don’t think we’ll have a lot in common. He kind of seems a bit simple for me in all honesty. The second one I’m more keen on. He’s not as good looking but is seriously funny and we have been texting and making each other laugh LOT
My concern is that he keeps talking about how I’m taking him back to mine when we meet up though. Now I’m not averse to this or anything but I don’t want to make any promises! What if I don’t fancy him in real life.
I think this is because I temporarily changed my status on bumble to ‘something casual’ when we matched. What do guys expect from that though? Guaranteed bangs? For me it just means I wanna meet people and have a laugh with and yeah hook up if there’s chemistry but I’m not really looking for a boyfriend right now. Equally though I’m not looking for a one night stand but is that how guys read it? For context I’m 29 so all the guys I’m talking to/matching with are early 30s or late 20s so I was hoping we’d be over that!
Not really tinder related but I was away at a cottage this weekend. As we were cleaning up and chilling getting ready to head out one of my female friends tells me that she thinks this other girl that was there probably was in to me. This girl was really attractive and I would definitely have been interested but I didnt pick up on that vibe whatsoever. I’m a pretty socially perceptive person and have always been good at noticing if there’s a flirty vibe but I picked up on absolutely nothing here. The girl is a relatively reserved person though. No real point to this story, just that maybe sometimes you dont pick up on things. Or maybe my friend is just dead wrong since she was shitfaced for 80% of the weekend.
Matched with a ball of rubber bands with paper clips for arms.
Turns out she’s 8 years older than me and game for every depraved thing I’ve yet sent her.
Plot twist: my California king hasn’t come in yet and I’m at the new place on a twin D:
So, I canceled the first date attempt to go camping, then she canceled the 2nd date attempt cuz she ate enchiladas at like 11 the night before (got snaps lol)… probably not going to happen
Anybody got experience going on dates with people in poly relationships? I feel fully prepared to be a side piece for a few dates and then quit amicably, but is there more to it that I should know about?
Other than that, I got asked out again for the second time this summer. This time by somebody that I had a deep conversation with (but not too much romantic interest from my part yet). I said yes because what the hell.
The girl I’ve been seeing for a few weeks (excellent dates too) has an insanely incompatible schedule with mine, for a few more weeks, so we agreed to dial it back for that time. We also agreed that it won’t be serious. I noticed the early stages of a crush after the first time I slept with her, though, but what the hell. I’ve had 4 different crushes this year for some reason lmao, I can handle that if it happens.
Ghosted by the first match I’ve had in 3 months, right after the 2nd message.
This has been said multiple times by multiple people but still, it sucks when a person ghosts you after saying they would love to go out with you. FFS at least have the courtesy to tell me you’re not interested anymore. One particular match stands out, matched with this girl before and she ended up ghosting me, then months later I match with her again, I start the convo saying « You ended up ghosting me last time ». she says « I don’t usually do that » and the convo goes well and guess what? ends up ghosting me again after saying that she would love to go out with me. FML. It sucks that she is so my type.
Yep, zero. Ghosted 4 times though. New high of low.