9 Ways To Make It Stick To You Like Glue
Getting into a relationship is just one piece of the puzzle. Making it last and keeping a man interested in a relationship is a whole different thing.
No, you don’t have to completely change yourself (unless you feel the need to), pretend you’re someone you’re not, or go overboard to please her.
There is no need for tactics and mind games. It could do more harm than good.
There are much simpler and more effective things that will make your man stick to you like glue. If you want to know more, keep reading.
There are a few secrets that might be of use to us and shed some light on the way men think, because no matter how many times we hear that they are simple creatures, they have a knack for complicating things.
So, let’s get started:
1. Make her want to be a part of your life
The first relationship rule should be: Have a life outside of your relationship!
Most often, women in love leave their desires, dreams, hobbies, friends and aspirations, making the man the center of their universe. In itself, this is the recipe for disaster.
By neglecting yourself, you’ll make a man do just the same.
If you are constantly listening to him, and you live your life to make him happy, he will take it for granted and will not appreciate it.
You have to know how to spend a lot of time with your partner, but that does not mean dedicating your life to him.
Create a life that you are proud of. Make time for your friends, try something new, and cultivate the old things you love.
This will make him appreciate you more and he will make an effort to be a part of your life which is amazing.
2. Be confident (or at least strive harder to be)
Yeah, I know that’s a cliché, but that doesn’t make it any less true. Confidence and self-esteem are the keys to turning your life into heaven and making it stick to you like glue.
Men have a sixth sense when it comes to self-esteem. They can smell it and they find it to be one of the greatest feminine virtues.
Seeing a woman who’s got her feet on the ground, who knows her worth and isn’t afraid to show it off is extremely attractive.
Confident women are arrogant, mischievous, playful, attractive and easy to get around, so that confidence becomes their main tool of seduction.
So if you are lacking in this area, do something to improve your self-confidence to ensure a better relationship.
3. If you relax a bit, you will get better results.
It is as if something is incorporated into our female DNA that makes us strive hard to get the attention of another person.
We give too much, we care too much, we strive too much, and sooner or later it falls on us.
What we have to do is meet someone halfway. Make equal efforts.
Stop pushing, pulling and forcing; instead, let things unfold naturally. It’s simple, isn’t it?
4. Let go a little every now and then
Realize that the male brain works differently from the female brain and that you are likely to have disagreements.
Your logic is different and you won’t be able to see things the same way all the time.
Remember that it is not necessary to right all wrongs. Choose your battles wisely and stand up for the things that are important to you.
Don’t allow arguments to break out over little things like the toilet bowl being raised or taking out the trash; all of this is not worth spending your energy.
5. Be playful (literally)
The truth is – without wanting to offend those who accidentally stumble upon it – men are sometimes like twelve year old boys wrapped in the body of a grown man.
They are playing video games, engaging in an activity, or embarking on a whole new hobby that makes absolutely no sense to you, unexpectedly, and you just sit there, not knowing what to do.
The best thing to do is play the game, find some common interests in all of it, or things to occupy yourself while he pursues his childhood dreams.
Annoying him will only ruin everything – playing the game is much better.
6. Give her compliments
Although most men would never admit it, they love compliments. They want to know what you are thinking and how you perceive them.
They want to know that they can woo you with a simple smile, no matter how long you’ve known each other.
So compliment him, tell him they’re cute, sweet, sexy, and whatever else you really think about right now.
Do not hold back. Contrary to popular belief, men need affection and attention just as much as women.
Another helpful tip that will work for both of you is to be grateful and let him know when you appreciate something he has done.
It doesn’t matter if he just took out the trash, that means you won’t have to! Tell him he’s awesome; it doesn’t cost you anything, but it will mean a lot to him.
7. Kisses, hugs and tenderness
Physical touch is important, even on days when you’re not in the mood for sex. It creates bond with a sense of security and belonging.
It is privacy taken to a higher level and it is important to maintain it.
So don’t let your daily obligations keep you from often kissing, hugging, and cuddling until you fall asleep in front of the TV after a tiring day.
8. Shake things up a bit
The rut is big – it’s known and comfortable – but it can easily get super boring and separate you from each other.
So be sure to shake things up a bit by introducing something new.
Plan a date, play a joke on her, buy some sexy lingerie.
Every now and then the change will be like a breath of fresh air that will make your relationship fun and remind you why you fell in love in the first place.
9. Make sure he knows you believe in and support him.
Be his support system. Tell him to take a risk if you think he’s on the right track.
Make sure he knows that even if he fails at something, you’ll be there.
He’ll never ask for your support, but that doesn’t mean he doesn’t need it. He just doesn’t think it’s manly to ask.
By doing these 9 simple things, you are building your friendship and creating a more intimate relationship with your spouse. You get closer physically and mentally to him.
They will naturally want to be with you more often, confide in you, and spend quality time with you.
He will never want to leave you for too long because he will enjoy your company so much.
More often than not, we forget the little things in life that make a difference.
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