Does he love me? 10 things he’ll do if he really cares about you!
How do I know if he really loves me?
When you are in a relationship, you can very easily let your face be veiled by the passion or infatuation of the first phase of the romantic relationship. We only see his qualities and we sincerely believe that he cares about us as much as we care about him. However, with time, the emotions calm down and the euphoria gradually disappears.
It is usually at this time that we begin to ask questions about the future of our couple. can our relationship last long term? Are we compatible? And, above all, is he really in love with me? It is when the routine sets in that we begin to notice his faults and his sometimes detached behavior. Of course, this does not mean that the relationship is doomed to failure but we still question the sincerity of the feelings that bind us and the stability of our couple.
Yet answer the question Does he really love me? shouldn’t be difficult. Quite the contrary, it should be pretty obvious. There are some flashy telltale signs that can help you uncover the truth about how he feels about you. So if you want to know if your partner is genuinely in love with you and if your relationship is likely to survive, you need to observe their behavior.
The telltale signs of a shared love
Men and women have unique ways of showing their love. While, in general, women prefer to be clear on this subject (that is, they do not hesitate to talk about it), men are more discreet. For them, love does not need explanations or long statements. Instead, they choose to prove to their partner that they love them by adopting protective and engaged behavior.
If your man is in the habit of doing the 10 things listed below, he is clearly in love with you even if he doesn’t say the fateful “I love you”. So, rather than waiting for grand declarations of love, observe his behavior and accept the fact that he prefers to show his love through gestures rather than words.
1. He maintains communication.
While he may not always be able to stay in touch with you, he makes the effort to send you a message during his coffee break or in the morning when he wakes up. A man who genuinely cares about you wants you to know that he is constantly thinking of you. You are the only person that haunts his mind and he seeks to prove that to you by always keeping communication open.
2. He asks for your opinion and respects it.
Your opinion is very important to him. He’ll, for example, ask your take on the outfit he’s wearing, the possibility of buying a new gadget, or where you’d like to spend the next weekend. He seeks to make you happy and to make you feel confident in yourself. Your opinion and advice (in case of personal or professional problems) is vital to him because, after all, you are the woman who shares his life. You are not only an object which is beautiful to look at, you are truly his partner.
3. He remembers perfectly all your discussions and the smallest details of your life.
If you tell him that you love white chocolate, he will remember it and at your next meeting, he will give you some. When you tell him the date of your birthday, the name of your favorite wine or your favorite song, he makes mental notes to keep everything in mind. He does this because he is aware that this information will be useful to him later when he wants to surprise you. Which means he has a future for you and therefore he is addicted to you!
4. He confesses to you his secrets or intimate things about his life.
When a man trusts you, he wants to build a serious relationship with you. So, for him, no subject is taboo. He will therefore tell you about his fears, his anxieties and even his mistakes. He will confess secrets that he has never dared to tell anyone else. If he shows you his past life, his opinions and his ways of thinking, it’s because he feels comfortable around you. He wants you to know him on every level because he is a real man and not a boy.
5. He makes a conscious effort to give you quality time.
With him, no excuses like “I’m too busy” or “I forgot”. Even if he is overwhelmed with work, he will make the effort to find time to devote to you. He doesn’t want to risk losing you or giving up his place to someone else. He will organize romantic dates and plan romantic outings which will be devoted only to you two and to the development of your romantic relationship.
6. He organizes romantic dates or fun outings for you.
Sometimes he prefers last minute plans. But, he also likes to take his time to organize the perfect romantic dates. He makes an effort because, for him, the time you spend together is vital. He’s not the kind of man who’ll text you late at night like « Are you awake? » but rather the type to buy tickets for a concert that will take place in several months.
7. Do you leave your things at his place? This is not a problem !
When you spend the night with him (and at his house), he doesn’t force you to pick up all your things before you leave. He isn’t afraid to share his space with you, and he doesn’t try to hide you from other potential women. He is completely committed to your romantic relationship. A man who genuinely cares about you is going to want you to feel comfortable in his house so he isn’t going to make a scene if you miss a deal or two.
8. He doesn’t ignore you after sleeping with you.
After your first night together (then after all the others), you’re not uncomfortable because he behaves like nothing has changed. You don’t find yourself isolated, you don’t spend days waiting for him to respond to your messages, and you don’t have to run after him to see him again. His goal isn’t just to sleep with you, he actually wants to build a serious relationship.
9. He introduces you to his friends.
When a man is in love, he wants his partner to be a complete part of his life. And, meeting his friends is therefore an obligatory course. He will be happy to introduce them to you because he wants you to find your place in his social circle and among the people who mean the most to him. He needs you to be a part of all areas of his life. Clearly, he does not distinguish between his world before you and his world with you: you close a whole!
10. He does anything to show you that he cares for you.
If your partner really cares about you, you know it by instinct. It doesn’t ignite any alarm bells in your mind, it doesn’t change your behavior suddenly, and it doesn’t confuse you. He is consistent and always considerate. With him, you aren’t going to wake up one morning to find that he’s gone and he isn’t going to suddenly decide to end your relationship.
It’s pretty obvious that a man who behaves like this is in love with his partner. So if you spot these telltale signs, you have no reason to doubt his feelings or his commitment to your relationship. For him, you are the only woman in the world and even if he doesn’t say “I love you” to you every day, he still thinks so.
If you need to hear him say these three words, you can ask him to make some effort in this direction. But, if you have enough confidence in yourself and if you believe in his sincerity, let him prove his love to you by these romantic and touching little gestures which have much more sentimental value than a few words spoken in the wind!
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