Dating : 8 Creative Types of Role Play to Try Tonight

So, you’re ready to introduce a storyline into your sex life.

Let’s talk about role-play.

Role-play is an amazing way to bring kink into your life. Who doesn’t want to live out their favorite fantasies? Plus, there are so many options to choose from that it’s doubtful you will get bored.

If you’re brand new to role-play or getting bored with your normal routines, we could all use more creative choices in our role-plays.

It’s time to dive into these fantasies!

Is there anyone sexier than Kim Kardashian and Kanye West? Or maybe old-school Brad Pitt and Jennifer Aniston? Or a more controversial Brad Pitt and Angelina Jolie, maybe?

You get the idea.

Playing as a favorite celebrity couple IRL or your favorite TV/movie couple can really spice up your sex life.

Here are a few suggestions on how to nail this one… and get nailed in the process:

1. Act out a sex scene from your favorite movie. You’ll be hard-pressed to find a millennial woman who wouldn’t want to act out *that scene* from The Notebook. “It wasn’t over… it still isn’t over!”
2. Make sure you break out the costumes. If you choose the Brad Pitt and Angelina Jolie scenario, I recommend the Mr. and Mrs. Smith ensemble. Try to pick something that you can easily create with items in your own closet.
3. Study your character. Let’s at least try to make this believable, okay? Even if you do a terrible impersonation of an accent, the effort is a turn-on. Also, bring props if needed. Who would Lady Gaga be without her wigs?

Let’s travel back to your high school days. (Or, college, if you’re like me.)

You’re shy. You’re maybe in love. You’re ready to do it.

Playing as if you’re losing your virginity can be a super intimate type of role-playing. It’s not a game you want to break out if you’re looking for a wild and crazy night.

I can personally recommend this one.

In fact, I wrote about the time my boyfriend and I role-played popping our cherries.

Let’s face it: we are living in quasi-apocalyptic times. We may as well put our experience to good use.

Survival sex can be an adrenaline-pumping sweat session.

Don’t be afraid to get down and dirty with this one. You’re the last people on earth! It’s up to you to repopulate the Earth. So, you better put your back into it.

Here are a few end-of-the-world scenarios to try out:

1. Zombie apocalypse sex. Could the stakes be any higher? The zombies want to tear your face off and eat your brains! Quick, let’s bang it out in the bathroom!
2. Mars colony sex. What if you were sent to Mars, the final humans to escape a failing Earth? Imagine what your partner would look like all smothered in hot red clay.
3. The rapture sex. Everyone has been sucked up into Heaven. It’s just you and him. You’re free to roam the world and f*ck wherever you want. Where would you go?

Picture this: the dim-lit piano bar, the fancy glass of wine in your hand, and you lock eyes with the sexy stranger across the bar. The only question is… your room or theirs?

Is it just me or are you turned on now, too?

The stranger fantasy is pretty popular. I like to spice it up with an added element of business professionals getting down and dirty. You’re both here for an HR conference. You’re on the company dime. You know you shouldn’t but…

You can’t help yourself.

Wish you were celebrating your favorite holiday? Introduce a little fa-la-la-la-la into your f*ck!

I personally love holiday sex. My favorite for role-playing? 4th of July.

Why would you want to pretend like you’re having sex during a holiday? Because we obviously all need a little celebration in our lives. Plus, holidays are a time away from work. No stress. No problems. Great sex.

Here are a few holidays you may want to screw to:

1. 4th of July. As I said, it’s my favorite. Throw on your bathing suits and an American flag and let’s go. There’s nothing sexier than independence, am I right?
2. New Year’s Eve. 3…2….1… orgasm! New Year’s Eve is a super sexy holiday. It’s a clean slate and there are literal fireworks. What more could you want?
3. Halloween. You thought I was going to say Valentine’s Day, right? Heck no. It’s Halloween. Slip on a slutty costume and you have a double role-play. Booooo-ty, right?

One of the hottest times I’ve had sex with my boyfriend was when his family was in the other room. It was unexpected and we had to be really quiet so they wouldn’t hear us.

So, again, this is a must-try in my opinion.

Pretend that you could be caught any minute. You’ll need to try to stifle your moans. You’ll need to suppress the bed from slamming against the wall. You’ll want to play with the boundaries, teasing each other, pushing the limits.

Shh… don’t let them hear you.

Outlander has brought time-period romance to the mainstream in a big way. Sexy men in skirts… how could I resist? And don’t even get me started on the accents.

You *need* to incorporate sexy time travel into your bedroom.

A few ideas to kickstart your creativity:

• The Roaring 20s. Screw Prohibition; let’s have a Gatsby party. Break out the champagne glasses and the flapper dresses and let’s get rowdy.
• The Renaissance. The world has arguably never been more creative. Find yourself a heartthrob of a painter and let him strip your corset off.
• 1600s with pirates. Pirates are a huge turn-on. Why do you think they made a million movies? It was hardly for the storyline. Take me on the open seas any day, Johnny Depp.

The teacher and the student. The boss and the secretary. The patient and the nurse. We all know the cliche role-plays.

Now, let’s give them a new spin, okay?

As a woman, I would normally play the sexy schoolgirl, the secretary, and the nurse. But, I’d like a new role, please. I’m going to be the one in charge.

Plus, male nurses are super hot. And you know I’m going to make my secretary man wear glasses that I’m probably going to break. (Invest in cheap, fake glasses, friends. It’ll change your sex game.)

I don’t want to throw away the cliche role-plays. I just want to reinvent them.

No matter what role-play you choose, make sure you and your partner are both comfortable and excited about it. This is meant to bring you closer and spice up your sex life. It’s no fun when only one of you is excited about it.

So, get out there, you sexy sailor or you hunky fireman or Brad Pitt. And have a great time.