Couple: here are the questions to ask yourself every time …
Well, we know a little about the Questions of first date, which are used to test the waters and study the beast in front of us. Yes, but here it is, once the first barriers have fallen, we let go of the questioning a little, and this is not necessarily the best idea.
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Obviously, the concept is not to play her Inspector Derrick, but a few well-asked questions can save time and to avoid getting involved in a relationship that will only leave you with bitterness, and / or crabs.
Here are some questions to ask yourself every step of a relationship : before forming a couple, before going to bed and when we have become « us ».
These useful questions to ask before getting into a relationship
1. What are you looking for in a relationship?
Yes, it’s a boat, but before embarking, it is always interesting to know if the other is looking for a hotel or altar partner instead. And to be on the same wavelength.
2. What is your goal in life?
Maybe a bit metaphysical, but at least you’ll quickly see if his way of seeing things suits you.
3. What is the ideal date for you?
Hoping he doesn’t offer you a pony ride.
4. What is your astrological sign?
Often it is said that things are written in the sky. We cannot say if this is true, but just in case, we do not tempt the devil and we probe the stars. If you are Libra and your date is Capricorn, we look no further: we pay the bill, we tell him « that was great », and we NEVER recontact him / her.
5. What are your hobbies?
If he / she answers Netflix, that’s cool, but don’t get distracted by starting to talk about series. It’s a trap. Dig into it and see what the person really has on their minds. A passion for animal documentaries on underwater fauna? It’s up to you to see if you want to go further or not.
6. Are you close to your family?
An important question to begin to consider the following, in order to know his vision of the family and know the place his is likely to take (In general, this is when you can sniff out an intrusive mother-in-law, and you can never be too warned).
7. Are you emotionally available?
This one, it will be necessary to coat it so as not to pass for a (e) addicted to psychomag.com who tries to analyze his interlocutor / trice. But she can really make you win time. Unless you want to play Carrie and Mr. Big, if he / she is not available, go your way (especially since in real life, they would never have ended up together, say so).
8. What place does religion have for you?
At first, everything is rosy, and then, one day, without warning, he / she will perhaps ask you to accompany him to mass every Sunday.
More seriously, it is better to know before the place that religion holds in the life of your potential partner and if you are in phase with that. Because if a difference in religious point of view will not bother some people, who will even see it as an asset, other couples will find themselves weakened by this difference when things become more serious.
These useful questions to ask before bedtime
Whether you are already in a relationship or not, before playing the beast with two backs (a 15th century expression that I am trying to rehabilitate) with your partner, there are some crucial questions to ask.
1. How do we protect ourselves?
Do as you want but go out safely for God’s sake!
2. Did you do the tests?
We are obviously not talking about the PCR, although …
I agree, it’s not super glam ‘to talk about test and STD in the heat of the moment, but it’s very important. So ask him / her if he / she has taken his little wee in a cup and his blood test, you can never be too careful.
3. Are you sleeping with other people?
Unless it doesn’t matter to you, asking this question should prevent (or reduce the chances) that it all ends in blood and tears.
4. Is our relationship purely sexual? / Is it just a one-night stand?
Same thing, we make sure that we are on the same wavelength and that no one should suffer.
5. What do you like?
Some will say that it is too early to ask the question, that they do not dare, but we are still talking about being too shy in front of a person with whom you will find yourself naked and with whom you are going. explore privacy. So the question is not really intrusive: it just makes it possible to simplify the work and maximize the pleasure. Dare!
These useful questions to ask when you’re in a relationship
1. Do you want children?
If you can already imagine Caesar, Blueberry and Octave playing on the beach with your Labrador, your partner better be in phase. History ofavoid disappointment to discover after two years that it is not at all in his / her projects and that the children, he / she likes, but in the others …
2. Do you think you will ever get married?
Same. If you dream of « love always », ring on your finger, white dress, and « intimate ceremony with our loved ones on the beach », it is better that your +1 is aware and share your craze for the project.
3. Where does infidelity start for you?
Is flirting cheating? Is saucer soaking? It’s up to you to define it, but it is crucial to agree on this to avoid (as much as possible) unpleasant surprises.
There you go, with this checklist you should be able to know if you have enough to ride on the highway of happiness with your particular partner, even if, of course, in love, everything is not rationalized not and we must leave room forunexpected and feeling.
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