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Dating : 3 Signs They Only Want Hookup

h2>Dating : 3 Signs They Only Want Hookup

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Cuffing season is coming up and you may be wondering, does she/he want a relationship or am I a pure hookup?

Well here are three major signs that you, indeed, are just a hookup.

You probably already know why. Whether they text you during the day or not, you notice that they’re much more active and enthusiastic towards you during the night time. My friends and I decided that after 9:30 P.M. is basically booty call hours. Well, if this is the case, depending on what you desire, you should either keep it casual or cut it off — that is only if you want something more with them.

They might ask you how your day was and what you are up to, but when you try to have an actual conversation you can tell that they’re not interested. Even if they show some interests, your gut tells you that they don’t really care. They may be more interested in the topic than what you have to say about it.

This one hurts if you are pursuing them as more than a hookup partner. You try to avoid how you feel but you already know that if you don’t text them or continuously put in the effort, the relationship or “situationship” may just end. You try to think that maybe it’s just in your head but let’s be real, if your partner did want something serious, you wouldn’t be here reading these.

It’s important to know what you want and where you stand with your partner. If you’re happy with the relationship that you share with them, I’m happy for you! However, if you notice that hookup and casual things are not what you’re looking for, it’s good to evaluate your situation and decide your next moves.

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