h2>Dating : 5 Ways to Keep Your Guy On His Toes In The Relationship
So, it has been a few months or even some days, that you have found your ‘prince charming’ and now, you feel that he is chasing you with the same zeal that some actor/actress would have chased the ‘Oscar’ once. Suddenly, you might start feeling like a queen whose king would do anything to woo her.
But what if your relationship loses spark down the line, and he starts taking you for granted? Obviously, you will feel terrible like hell! Won’t you? However, here are some easy-peasy solutions that can turn the tables for you and keep your man on his toes:
- Don’t make yourself ‘always available’ for him
Maybe, he texted you a few minutes ago! Now, don’t act too cute by reverting him back the very next moment. Don’t send him a signal that you were just waiting for his message for so long. Take a few hours or maybe, even a day to respond, and this will make him crave for you even more.
Tell him that you need some ‘ME’ time aka personal space. And if you are in no mood to recharge your battery and spend some alone time, catch up with your friends. All these frequent moves will make him realize that he needs to instill some efforts to grab your attention.
2. If you are feeling bored, tell him
If something about him doesn’t interest you much and makes you yawn like anything, tell him about it. After all, no partner would like to make his significant other feel bored when he is around.
Sometimes, giving that ‘I am feeling so bored’ kinda look might hint him to come up with some brilliant ideas to spice up the relationship.
3. Remind him of your options
Every woman deserves lots of pampering from her BAE. If your boyfriend is not giving you the attention you deserve, be upfront and tell him that you might be interested in other options.
Now, this doesn’t mean that you have to seriously consider this ‘hook-up’ option if he isn’t making efforts to spend some time with you. Find something that makes you happy. It can be trying your hands on baking, singing, writing, or anything that you enjoy.
In case, you plan something huge for him and get no overwhelming response in return, just say these golden words ‘if he doesn’t value you, somebody else will’. And, if he is really serious in this relationship, the mere thought of losing you will bring him back on track.
4. Flirt with him like a boss
When was the last time you flirted with him like a badass, or he craved for you like really bad? More than half a decade? But let me tell you this secret, guys just love it when you flirt with them while maintaining that captivating eye contact!
Flirting with him often will keep that spark alive and further, it will make him fall head over heels in love with his hot lady.
5. Tell him that you both are a couple with an equal set of responsibilities
Is he too lazy to prepare bed tea for you ‘sometimes’? Do you have to take the whole charge of home every single day? If you are nodding your head, now is the time to remind him about the responsibilities that a couple needs to share in a relationship.
You can share household chores so as to make things less overwhelming later. This way, you both will be able to wind up things on time and spend some more quality time together. Maybe giving a massage or preparing his or her favorite meal? 😉
A relationship is just like a partnership where you both invest your time and efforts to make that bond blossom for years and years to come.
