Dating : Funking Boys Series

When your flirt leaves you for his ex

So yeah this happened. Yesterday night we cooked dinner together and we were watching a Fatih Akın movie. All of a sudden his housemate’s girlfriend came but I need to add;

She is best friends with my flirt’s ex so she went her place bc her mom was sick and she is such a drama queen (I do not know her but that what people said) that she deleted her on instagram and blocked her calls so she texted my flirt and he told her that you better go if you want to save her friendship bc she went crazy.

So she came back and it was a weird situation bc they couldn’t talk easily around me bc they don’t want me to get hurt. Anyway we chit chat a little and started to watch the movie again all together. And then her phone started to ring and it was his ex calling. It’s been only 15 min since she came back from her apartment. She want inside and came back shocked and called my flirt to talk inside. I was stunned bc it didn’t make sense to me. They broke up a year ago and how come those things could happen if you did not allow them?

Anyway they came back, he called her ex and they decided to go to her place together. At that point people are trying to apologize to me but not him. I did not say anything about this situation, didn’t even open my mouth a bit. And he left without saying anything, not a single word.

So we stayed at home with his other 2 housemates and they went crazy. They all thought that she is crazy and the most manipulative person they have ever seen. They said she is still in love with him but he doesn’t feel anything about her. And then I asked and then why did he go? They said in this situation everyone should go otherwise he would become an asshole.

So? Why do you care anymore?

If something is finished a year ago, you should drop this here. Nobody will convince me that this think is over if you went her apartment in the middle of the night when you were staying with another girl in your apartment.

We talked hours with his friends and I decided to leave bc in any scenario I couldn’t feel secure myself in there. I took everything with me. Normally I would leave just with my backpack bc I know that I would come back. But this time I took my cat with me as well, there is nothing left there.

I came home at 2 am, was feeling like a shit. I was waiting for a text, a call but nothing. I couldn’t slept till 4 am and then I passed out at the couch.

When I woke up, there is still nothing. I checked my phone ones in a while I was sleeping at 8, 9, 10. Nope. And I though what the fuck is he trying to do and entered WhatsApp to check. Turns out that my storage was full and I couldn’t get any new messages so I empty my storage and entered the app.

So he texted me just before I left the apartment. He came back to the house 15 min later I left. He wrote;

I’m really sorry, they told me you left, you are right, I don’t know what to say but I couldn’t let her go by herself so I went with her. And I’m glad that I did bc it was a mess.

So when I read it I didn’t feel anything bc it is not giving me anything.

What happened?

Why did you leave without even talking a word with me?

Why am I here? Should I be involve to this or not?

He left me with tons of questions. I answered back to him by telling how this situation made me feel like shit and I didn’t want to stay inside something that is not finished yet. And told him that I want to understand you but you need to help me with that bc we couldn’t communicate with you. There is still no response and I don’t know what should I do so I decided to write about it and here we are!

Oh also I forgot to mention all of this started with an instagram story;

His housemate shared a picture of us having fun at home during the quarantine but non of his ex or her friends were following her. So one of their best friend’s ex wife took a screenshot of her story and sent it to his ex. After like 10 days, I add the girl that is girlfriend of his housemate’s and also the best friend of his ex. So she saw that but I don’t know how and (what the fuck should I care about it?) she deleted her best friend on social media and blocked her number. That’s why he told her you should go to her apartment to save your friendship bullshit. So all of the subjects are related to me in some point and I don’t need that kind of drama in my life right now. K. Bye.