h2>Dating : It´s hard to be a heterosexual man in 2020.
It´s all the rage to talk about women´s struggles today — but men´s struggles are valid too.
Are you a heterosexual man living in the West? If so, you are in trouble.
Recently, I deleted all my social media accounts — but I have left LinkedIn for professional purposes. I never use it – but a few days ago I went online to add a few new updates. The first post I saw on my timeline, was liked by someone in my contacts and the entire post was complaining about men who message women on LinkedIn for dating purposes and how “inappropriate” it was to get approached for romantic purposes on a professional platform. Replies went along the lines of “I exclusively tolerate being approached by men in bars and on dating apps.” Pardon my French, but I´m sick of this garbage.
Heterosexual dating has become a minefield today and honestly, I don´t blame men for checking out of dating altogether. You can call them “incels” all you want but you can´t blame them for proactively self-preservating their emotional and financial safety. The hypocrisy is staggering and no option is safe. Let´s look at all the available outlets and the pitfalls they entail:
👆”STARING LONGER THAN 5 SECONDS IS SEXUAL HARASSMENT.”
Yes, you must not ever glance at a woman in your life. Just blinking in her direction is a sign of asserting toxic male dominance and predatory interest in god forbid – a pretty female.
🤯 “WHY DON´T MEN APPROACH ME? UGH.”
Isn´t it so annoying that you want men to look at you and admire your beauty but you also label it as creepy? I guess it depends on how hot the guy is who is staring at you. If a hot guy stares, it´s flirty — but if he´s ugly? Get ya phone out and call the cops.
