Dating : Men Don’t Want Single Women With Kids

Especially High Value Men

On YouTube Acefiasco stated,

“I would rather die than marry a woman with kids, and I’m sure this can be said for the majority of men out here. This can’t continue, at some point in time something has to give in or break.”

Acefiasco could be a dusty, but most men do not want a single woman with children.

I would not want a man with a bunch of small children. I feel these men pain. I do not want children. I am not having children. I did years ago. But last year I decided I I do not want to have children. However, a man with children is not a desk breaker. I would only consider a man with teenage children or adult children. I would not date a man with a lot young children or a man who neglects his children and owes back child support. I would date a man with children who was married or in a relationship with the mother of his children and then things didn’t work out. But it’s a no for me if he has multiple baby mamas back to back, children the same age or 1 year apart by different women, and was wreckless when having children.

When my mother met my father, my mother already had 2 young children by two different men — 1 girl and 1 boy. Then she had 4 more with my father — me, 2 other girls, and 1 boy. I never thought about this problem growing up. I am only seeing this as a problem now that men do not want women who have children. I do not think it is a global problem. Maybe some low income men do not care because they are older and without children, and they do not want to die alone.

To me, my father did not have much to offer a woman himself, so settling for a woman with children probably did not phase him that much. Plus my parents lived in a different era. I do not know how people were thinking in the 60s and 70s.

I don’t know what to tell you because most women HAVE children. The older they are, the more children they will have. One of my cousins has 5 children. She started having children at 14 years old. By 19 she had 3 children by 3 different men. Today, all her children are adults and teenagers — however, she is single and never been married. Women have children by various numbers of men. My sister is single and has 3 children under 18 by 3 different fathers. She started having children at age 15 years old.

Nearly every women I went to high school with have children. If they have more than 1 child, they have different fathers. I can count on 1 hand how many of my women high school classmates with children are married — and the number is even less for the ones married to the father of their children.

This is one classmates from high school post.

She has 3 children by 3 different men. And 3 of them have health issues that she continues to post about on Facebook and Instagram. Unfortunately, there are few men that will sign up for a woman with children who have health issues. It will be time consuming and a financial burden. Men date and marry because they want to have fun and enjoy their woman. Men do not want to become instant fathers.

If a woman does not have any children, she went to college, is highly educated, and does not want a dusty man. So, if a man wants a woman with no children he will need to step his game up to meet high quality educated women. The educated women I know do not have any children. They are NOT settling for ANY man.. High value women rather die alone than to settle for some dust bunny man.