Dating : REALITY OF LIFE AS A MODERN MUSLIM.

REALITY OF LIFE AS A MODERN MUSLIM.

I don’t have the courage to write the reality of life because I just want to write happy things, satisfying things but not the harsh reality which almost everyone faces. Everyone of us, is in contact with uncertainties of life. Uncertainties which are life changing and for some life taking god forbid. Reality is somehow acceptable though, but as there are exceptions people of some type cannot accept it & end their precious life. Being a part of this modern world we have to accept certain new ways of living life. One of the elements of modern time is pre-marital relationships, Between male and female members of the society belonging to different age groups starting from 13 to 14 years of age mostly. People in this time start to feel loved for each other and it results in committed relationships. But in actual reality one of them either the male or female deceives, which results in total heartbreak and a setback for life for that person who has been deceived. Here what concludes is that people take pre marital relationship as a joke and the one who takes it seriously which one should take as it has been committed, the poor guy or girl gets cheating and fraudulence. This issue has taken many lives (suicide) sadly because it leaves a seriously grave impression on one’s life. In today’s world it is nearly impossible to get two young people married at an early stage because one cannot afford to be financially independent at that stage of life, as marriages are stronger than these relationships. These relationships are one of the harshest realities of life which many of you might have experienced, that is so disturbing that one cannot control his or her feelings which leads to extreme breakdown of emotions.

I know many of you among the readers will think that these types of relationships are totally unlawful according to our religion, “islam”but what actually is unlawful is Zina(sex without marriage)and activities related to premarital intimacy. If one can be organised, pious and honest relationship it does not become unlawful. This is the reality of modern times. This is what we see, experience and learn but ironically we don’t accept it. And surely my dear readers no one can deny it.