Dating : The Only Reason Why You Should Marry Someone?

The answer is… there is no reason to marry someone other than friendship. Just give it a thought, you’re going to spend the entire life with that person, which means after a certain time you will have to tolerate that person and now you tell me who is the single person you’ve happily tolerated your entire life? It’s your Friend.

German Philosopher, Friedrich Nietzsche said about marriage: “When marrying you should ask yourself this question: do you believe you are going to enjoy talking with this woman into your old age? Everything else in a marriage is transitory, but most of the time that you’re together will be devoted to conversation”

For a moment, forget the sex, forget her body, forget everything and just focus on her personality and ask yourself honestly,

Do you like her personality?

What do you like her about her personality?

What do you dislike in her personality?

Are the dislikes more than likes?

Forget her face and forget about how beautiful she is. Do you enjoy talking with this person? Or do you prefer your friends when you just want to talk?

Why these types of question? Because, If you are choosing a partner just based on the looks and you need to understand, that beauty will decline as you age. At 40, she will be half as beautiful as she used to be at 25.So the hotness for most parts will be gone and you will still be married to her personality.

A wonderful friendship involves accepting one another unconditionally, flaws and all. They might annoy you in some ways and piss you off in others, but you still want to be there for them and you want them to be there for you.You don’t get sick of each other, but when you need your space, neither of you takes it personally and you give it to each other.

And maybe you think in terms of “we” and “us” and not “you” and “me.” This is a product of having shared values that manifests as a solid, loving friendship. Of course, you recognize and respect one another’s autonomy. But you’re also a team, working towards the same goals.

To sum it up, she might have a magnificent pair of…books in her shelves but just don’t just get blinded by those books. The cover might look very interesting, but the day will come when you just get bored with reading the same content again and again. And then crave for reading other books so the whole point got defeated when you committed to that previous book.

These are just my perspective on how I look at things, I would love to get your viewpoint on that. Till then,

Happy Wedding! 😛