Dating : The Reason Why She Isn’t Interested In You Anymore

A woman always has a reason to leave.

The relationship between you and her goes from being great to suddenly go downhill.

A lot plays in without knowing it: the jealousy and insecurity.

It can be anything.

You may not know what you’ve done wrong. She went from being interested in you to stop showing interest. While some girls want a bad boy to hurt her heart, a real woman wants a man who desires her and treats her with respect. And when she leaves, there is a great reason behind it that you may not be aware of. This article goes out for those who were in a relationship or recently started to get to know someone before it died off.

There is a reason and here are they.

Both of you just started getting to know each other and you already love-bomb her by calling her “Babe” and bombing her phone with lots of romantic sentences. It can be dangerous to play with a woman’s emotion like that if you one day snap at her and leave her. Were your words true then? The truth is, she barely knows anything about you yet. You’re not her boyfriend so don’t act like her boyfriend in the beginning. It takes a while before a woman opens her heart to a man and she wants to open her heart to the man who’s worthy of her love. It’s kinda hard for her to believe in your romantic words if she hasn’t seen how you react in her difficult times.

There is nothing worse than making someone feel uncomfortable. You make her feel unwelcome by making the environment in the room bad for her. She gets a bad vibe from you. You constantly talk about yourself and repeat yourself multiples times. When she starts expressing herself, you don’t listen to her and start to argue against her opinions instead of just listening to her. Notice your body behavior, maybe you’re giving her intense eye look and turning the music loud in the room which is disturbing to her. You’re probably forcing topics with her, that she isn’t comfortable sharing with you yet.

She is not your mother, so it’s not her job to raise you and be your part-time mother and part-time partner at the same time. It’s a hard and exhausting job to take and she doesn’t get paid to do that job. You get offended when she speaks her mind and has an opinion on different topics. She feels exhausted, sad and miserable around you because you don’t grow up. You ignore how you make her feel and she stops expressing how miserable she feels when you act immature. How it drains her brain and energy out. She slowly stops talking to you and before you know it: she’s out of your life.

You hear her, but you don’t really listen to her. Not paying attention to her means you don’t acknowledge her existence, as if you don’t care about her presence. You don’t show attention to her interests and hobbies. She feels invincible to you and it makes her feel unwanted. You’re always constantly busy and never check up on her once in a while. You always make it about you. You always want attention from her but you don’t reciprocate the attention back to her. She doesn’t expect you to spoil her all the time, she wants space too. But once in a while, she wishes that you could give her a little attention once in a while.

Not boring as in “You’re a good guy with a big heart.” but as in: You have no hobbies, you are not up for any adventures, you don’t want to learn anything new, you have no opinions to any topics, you don’t have a brain, you’re closed-minded with blinkers on, you have no dreams, you’re always in victim-mode, and only wants to be at home, playing video games doing nothing. There is just something sexy and attractive about a man who has a personality, brain, desires, and opinions.

You constantly want approval from her, because you can’t approve of yourself the way you are. It’s as if she’s your mother who has to milk you with love and attention. You’re so insecure that you constantly want her around her to feel safe. You snap at her if she doesn’t reply to your text message after 10 minutes. You want her to constantly give you love 24/7 and not caring that she’s just a human who gets exhausted and wants her space.

You rant out all your problems to her. You bring something negative out in the middle of nowhere. You degrade her and barely ever laugh at anything because you’re always so serious. She’s often in a good mood, but when she talks with you, the conversation always ends up on a negative road. You always get offended and you choose not to make the mood better again or fix the problem that you caused between you and her. You come up with lots of excuses as to why you’re negative and in constant denial.

This can piss women off. It happened to me for a couple of years, and it pissed me off. One moment you show signs of liking her and the next moment you are gone for a few months without a word. After a few months, you come back to her only to ghost her again. You hold her hand and the next day you say you aren’t ready for anything serious. Make up your damn mind because you’re wasting her time and you’re playing with her feelings (whether you realize it or not) You are confusing her when you give her mixed signals. Be clear and specific about what you want. She rather be hurt than confused.

You can’t just love-bomb her from the start because you’re lonely as hell and later on say you’re interested in anything. It gives her the signal that you’re confused and doesn’t know what you want. The two of you are still in the stage of getting to know each other but she does all the work in getting to know you, while you invest time in getting to know her at all. This is a one-sided relationship. She is serious about starting a future with you but you prioritize other things such as work and family without her. This makes her feel unwanted and unimportant. You are unsure about being in a relationship with her or having a future with her. She doesn’t have time for that. She wants someone who is serious about the relationship as much as her.