How do I know if he’s interested in me? The 10 signs
You start to have an accomplice relationship with your colleague Julien, and you wonder if he is interested in you.
Or you’ve had a friend for a while, Greg, who maybe a little too nice to believe he just wants to be friends with you.
You don’t dare ask him directly because you don’t want to ruin the relationship you have with him today. Or worse: you have afraid to take you a big wind, that you realized that you had made movies for yourself.
How to tell if he’s interested in me: here are the 10 signs that this guy likes you.
1 – He seeks contact
This man, he is touch with you, more than with others. There is never an opportunity to brush your arm, to smell your perfume, to remove an eyelash stuck to your cheek. The « safe distance » is reduced between the two of you.
He also seeks contact via the calls or messages. You don’t take the first step all the time, because he writes to you on his own regularly.
2 – It comes back to you if you don’t
You do not give him news for several days? If he’s interested in you, he’ll eventually put his ego aside and come back to you. He’s not the kind of man who doesn’t answer your messages (it’s called ghosting), or pretend you don’t exist for weeks.
If he is interested, he will always come back to you.
3 – He is interested because he is inquiring about you
Strangely, he knows things about you that you are almost certain you never told him. Normal: he checked with your friend Juliette. He obviously tried to find out if you were already in a relationship.
But he also knows where you live, what you do for a living etc. It’s curiosity, and it’s also the better to be able to seduce you. Like in the famous movie The Arnacoeur with Vanessa Paradis and Romain Duris: we love the scene where he eats Roquefort in front of her because he knows she loves it. Small problem: he did not brush his teeth afterwards, so he infects it with his bad breath … Still it works, she falls in love!
4 – He listens to you and asks questions about you
A man who is interested in you really cares about you. That is to say that the conversations do not revolve around him, but rather around you. He wants to know more about you because he wants to get to know you.
Also he actively listens to you when you speak it is not on Snapchat at the same time. What you say really interests him.
5 – You regularly feel his gaze on you
Even if he pretends to ignore you at a party because he is too shy or out of pride, his gaze does not deceive him. You feel it often looks at you out of the corner of my eye, that you do not go unnoticed.
In this type of situation, he may also act in such a way that you notice him, to get your attention, for example by pulling out jokes, or talking to another woman.
6 – His gaze changes with you
Here there are two schools of thought as to how he may look on you.
Either he fixes you with a charming look, he looks you in the eye because he has more confidence in himself. Which can destabilize you, or embarrass you.
Yes, the hard to look you in the eye, because you disturb him, or else he is shy. Every time you meet him he flees your gaze, you feel uncomfortable. Surely because he tries as best he can to manage the emotions that overwhelm him.
7 – He changes his behavior in your presence
You feel that you are unsettling him, because when you approach him he almost loses his means, or a beaming smile appears on his face. Either way it’s not the same when you’re around.
It may also be that he tries to put himself forward, to value himself in your eyes. In any case you feel that the mood changes, that your presence near him brings about a change.
8 – He is interested because he confides in you
This man confides in you personal things that he does not necessarily share with others. You feel a special relationship between you, because he trusts you.
Your discussions do not remain superficial, they are deeper.
9 – He gives you compliments
« This dress looks good on you! » »,« Well done, you seem more and more confident in meetings »,« I think it’s great that you defend animals! «
This man is interested because he gives you compliments. Whatever you do, he supports you and thinks it’s cool.
Be careful, however, because there are also men who have little self-esteem and who tease often the women they like, making them counter compliments, which you might take badly if you’re a little touchy. It looks more like: « The face you have in this photo! » »,« You don’t need to have been to Saint-Cyr to know that! « …
eh yes Who loves well chatises as well : These men bond with you in their own way.
10 – He is clearly interested because he wants to see you again
An interested man makes an effort to see you again. It offers you outings, for two or with friends. Either way he thinks of you, and knows how to free up time in his schedule for you because he feels you are worth it.
Conclusion: how to know if he is interested in me
Finally, to find out if he is interested in you, it’s all aboutintuition. Activate your sixth sense: observe his behavior in your presence, and see if he acts differently with you, if you feel a particular tension between you.
And don’t forget that each man has his own way of seducing, based on his self-confidence and experiences. Please really and want to be clear about it, try a reconciliation (a touch, a suggested exit, an almost obvious implication etc.), and see how he reacts. Yes girls, today the woman can also take the first step, so take advantage of it 😊
If you are at the start of a relationship and you are not sure which way to dance with him, download the guide “Make him want to get involved: 16 mistakes to avoid”.
So, do you think your crush is interested?
Marie, your Love Mentor
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