How do they communicate in their relationships with women?
Understanding men’s feelings is also about how they work when they start a conversation or start a relationship. Here are some signs to recognize. Silence is a source of inspiration for man, he « goes into his cave » to solve his problems, escape his stress. He does not want in any case to be disturbed by his companion during this period of withdrawal.
How many times have you not felt in him this feeling of estrangement, this fear of losing him? Why does he feel the need to distance himself?
Let’s call it elastic man syndrome : he leaves you momentarily then finds you again when he decides. This way of proceeding corresponds to a need for freedom but also to a need to take stock of one’s feelings and to judge their depth.
As soon as the feeling of lack appears, he wants to find his beloved. As strange as it may seem, this passage is necessary for him and ultimately rather reassuring for the rest. Over time and his confidence, these separations will be less and less long and necessary for the couple.
The mind of man is mainly synthetic. The men get straight to the point. For them, speaking is an instrument for informing and not for expressing feelings.
He likes to be independent because it is to prove to himself that he is responsible for his choices and that he knows how to assert himself. Although he acts without consulting you, he still seeks your approval because he needs to know that you support him whatever his decision. He acts cautiously as he weighs his words. Each of his gestures will have a meaning and value in his eyes. Isn’t he the one who gets up in the morning to go to the bakery? Isn’t he the one holding the door in your path or carrying the umbrella? When you appreciate all the attentions he gives you, he reassures himself by saying to himself: « She loves what I do for her, so I can make her happy ». What he wants above all and which is a proof of his love: wanting your happiness!
Help, he wants to take a break! How to react ?
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