How to know if you like a man
« How do I know if he likes me ? » is the eternal question that every woman asks herself. We meet an interesting man and we would like to get to know him better, or even go out with him. However, a small voice inside us, doubts us: “what if he didn’t like me?”. What are the signs of a man troubled by a woman?
For fear of being rejected or humiliated, we do not dare to venture to ask him directly if he would like to go further: you want to get out of the “acquaintance or“ friendship ”phase and start a serious relationship with this man but you lack confidence.
Do not worry ! It’s a pretty common feeling. The standards of our modern society mean that men have all the power and women have, therefore, learned to leave the reins to them. However, we can see, today, that things are changing little by little (and it was about time).
Women no longer want to wait for men to decide to ask them if they want to be in a romantic relationship with them: they want to decide and take matters into their own hands. Despite this, some do not dare to confess their feelings and finally ask the question: “do you want to go out with me?”. And, they hesitate because they wonder what are the signs emitted by a man troubled by a woman.
To encourage you in this process, we have prepared a list of typical behaviors of a man you like. Thanks to this, you will be able to be sure of what he feels for you and finally dare to take the plunge.
The 20 signs that prove that a man is attracted to you:
1. He asks you tons of questions
He can’t help it: he talks over and over again. But, not from him! If he talks so much it is because he asks you many questions. He tries to get to know you better: he is curious and interested. He wants to know everything about you: what you love and hate.
If he’s paying attention to your answers, that’s a very good sign. First of all, it shows that what you say is very important to him. Then it shows that his attention is on you and not himself. He put himself in the background to give you room to express yourself.
2. His behavior and his smile
You realize that when he is with you, his behavior changes. When you are around, he tries to act cooler and is quieter than usual. He is not as talkative and outgoing with you as he is with his friends.
Plus, he can’t help but smile. You put him in a good mood and everything you say brings him joy. Likewise, it proves that when you are together he tries to create a pleasant atmosphere, trying to make you feel comfortable.
3. He looks you in the eye
Many people misinterpret this sign. They think that if a man looks at your chest or your assets, in general, he is interested in you. This is completely wrong! It only proves that he is attracted to your physique. On the other hand, a guy who looks you straight in the eye when you speak is interested in you.
This way he tries to show you that he is interested in your personality and that whatever you say is important to him. Looking you in the eye, he seeks to establish an intimate connection. Therefore, please maintain this eye contact.
4. He ignores you
You didn’t think that he was trying to ignore you was a sign that you were enjoying yourself, did you? Well, yes! Some men like to show that they are difficult to understand and to have. Yet this way they are just looking to boost your interest in them.
A man can also appear nervous and shy; when he talks to a girl who attracts him and therefore ignoring him is a defense mechanism. If you feel like this is the case with the guy you are attracted to, try to put him at ease by smiling sweetly at him.
5. It asks for your phone number
This sign is rather clear. If he’s looking to get your phone number, he’s interested in you and wants to stay in touch. If he responds quickly to your messages or calls: you have tickled his interest.
But beware ! Some men are only looking to collect phone numbers. If he’s texting you late at night or calling you only once a week, he’s only looking for a one-night stand!
6. He wants you to be connected on social networks
If he makes an effort to follow your social media accounts, like Facebook or Instagram, then he is interested in you. When a man is attracted to a woman, he will talk to her on Messenger at any time of the day, comment on her photos and follow her activities.
7. “Do you have a boyfriend?”
There are not 36 ways to interpret this question. He wouldn’t ask you if he wasn’t interested in you. Still, some men are not going to be blunt. They will tell you about being single and hope that you confess to yourself that you are alone.
You must therefore be attentive to all types of mentions of this kind.
8. He accidentally brushes against you
If he tries to touch you (shoulder, arm, etc.), he finds you sexy! This kind of relationship gives him energy and helps him build physical intimacy, in addition to emotional one. He can’t help but brush against you as it gives him a sense of conquest.
9. He is jealous
Jealousy is a strong feeling that most men find difficult to control. If you see him nervous and restless when you talk to another man: he is under your spell. Despite himself, he gauges the competition and tries to see if this intruder could pose a threat to your future relationship.
Restore his self-confidence by paying attention to him. Show him that you are also interested in him and that he has no reason to be jealous.
10. He remembers everything you told him
Down to the smallest details… Let’s be honest! Men are not good at remembering the different conversations we have had with them. however, a man interested in you will know that you told him about the fact that you applied for a new position and he will ask you how the interview went!
It shows that he is always thinking of you and that he is looking to stay connected and develop your rapport, beyond friendship.
11. He teases you
Do you remember little Paul who pulled your hair in kindergarten? Well, yeah ! Paul like you… It’s the same with men: they tease because they try to get your attention.
Seeking a reaction from you is how a man who is attracted to you will reveal his true feelings.
12. He doesn’t look at other girls
It is rather normal for a man (and a woman!) To look at what is going on around: he looks for an attractive woman and his gaze remains fixed on her. It’s stronger than him! Yet a man interested in a relationship with you is only fixated on you.
He gives you his full attention and tries to prove to you that no one else exists.
13. He helps you
Is your car broken down but you have to go to a dentist? No problem, he’s here! Your knight in the protruding armor will solve all your problems. He doesn’t just want to sound like a hero, to you.
He seeks to show you that you can trust him and that he is someone you can lean on. No matter what, he will always be there for you and help you overcome any difficulty.
14. He seeks to prolong the discussion
Is he looking for a few more moments with you? It’s simply because he’s having a hard time saying “goodbye” to you and parting with you. He doesn’t know how to end the conversation and turn his back on you to leave.
It seems to you that you could talk all night long without being jaded by the other. This is a clear sign: you are no longer in the friendship phase but you are starting a deeper and more intimate relationship.
15. When he is with you, he does not use his phone
These days everyone is obsessed with their phone. Therefore, when you meet a man who gives you his full attention and doesn’t look at his screen every two seconds when you are talking with him, he is very interested in you.
These kinds of people pay more attention to what you say so that they can reuse the details of your conversation later when they move into the dating phase. It might sound insignificant, but in reality this behavior says a lot about her character and how she feels about you.
16. He gives you compliments
When a man is attracted to a woman, he will notice things in her personality that she himself can sometimes ignore. In addition, he will appreciate certain traits or changes that others will not even notice: a new haircut, for example.
He’s not going to be afraid to compliment you on your outfit or any quality you have. The more compliments you receive, the more interesting you are to them.
17. He introduces you to his friends
Just the idea that he wants to introduce you to his friends is a revelation in itself. He is proud to know you and seeks to show you to the people who are closest to him. This way he wants to impress you.
He’s probably already told his friends about you and is looking to show you what group of people are around him. He wants to show you that you have your place by his side and that you will have no trouble fitting into his circle of friends.
18. He talks about his plans
He insists on having these conversations. He wants to tell you about his goals and plans for the future in order to test your reaction and gauge how you can find your place in his future.
He may also try to impress you. Indeed, he may be trying to prove to you that he is not a failure and that he has thought through what he wants. He has planned his life and will do everything to achieve his goals. And what is more attractive than a confident man?
19. Unconsciously, he imitates your gestures
It is a subconscious reaction to imitate the actions of the person in front of you. When you admire and respect someone, you tend to mimic their behavior.
This can come in many forms. he may start to adopt the same rhythm or the same intonation as you, to use the same words, to fold his arms when you do it etc…
20. Her face and body tell you everything you need to know
Men are quite transparent when it comes to body language: he will position himself directly in front of you and will tend to lean towards you if he is attracted to you.
On the other hand, if his feet or his body in general are not turned towards you but towards the door, he is not interested in a romantic relationship with you.
Once you’ve analyzed their behavior, you’ll be sure how they feel about you. The decision will then rest in your hands: do you want to start a relationship with him or not? Now that you know he’s showing all the signs of a man troubled by a woman, are you still interested in him?
When you’ve answered these questions, get started! Ask if he wants to date you. Don’t be afraid of rejection and don’t be afraid of their reaction. Trust us, if he presents the signs listed above, he is already conquered and surely does not wait for you to hand him the pole. Good luck !
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