POF : Anyone looking to not just f#ck but actually have a relationship?
My problem is I’m a bigger girl, but hold my weight well. But all guys want is a one nighter or fwb. I’m sick of the site. Like I have self respect, find someone else. /end rant
By. BrittsPack
You might have luck doing some initial messaging to profiles that seem like they’re more what you’re looking for
You should see how men fair. If i dont donate money for gas or.milk or whatever thwy beg for it for i dont even get any attention, and im decently handsome imo.
Not everybody likes skinny.
Im a gurl and Im not turned on by a thin, fit man.
Many buff men prefer a thicker woman.
Chin up! Keep looking.
u/BrittsPack, this is how men are. We want to have sex with women, as a first priority. After we get to know her and like her, we’re more likely to commit.
Idk what to say, it’s how nature build humans. It’s frustrating …but I’m just trying to be sincere with you.
I’d rather tell you something harsh and true than something « nice » and false/erroneous.
Not everyone is like that. I’m in relatively decent shape and don’t have a problem with bigger girls. Just depends more on the personality at that point. You’ll find something even if its not on the site.
I’ll keep 100 with you. Bigger girls these days tend to neglect bigger men on their looks level and go for giys out of their league. Going for guys out of your league will only get you used for sex. A man will rarely commit to a woman below him in looks. Today’s women all go for the top 10% of guys then wonder why those guys behave like they have endless options….because they DO!