POF : Concerned about the welfare of a match
(UPDATE)
THE MAN IS FINE. HE WAS JUST HORNY.
Starting talking very casually to someone over the holidays who now after the last message exchange i think was deeply depressed and im worried they might have done something they can’t undo.
Is there anyway the management at pof can contact this person or have some sort of wellness check in place?
I keep opening the app to check his stuff and see if he’s online but he hasn’t been since new years.
His last message was that he was super fucking depressed and drinking alone and wanted to know if he could be honest with me.
But I went to bed before checking my messages and now I can’t stop thinking about it.
Any help guys?
By. butterflypuncher
Not sure if anyone else read this but I hope he’s ok 🙁 sadly i dont think there is anyone on the site you can contact i kinda get the feeling all communication is with a system and not people 🙁 if you show it to the police do you feel they can look into it? someone must know something I def would enquire, I hope your friend is ok
I highly recommend not engaging with men like this and directing them to seek a therapist instead. It’s unfair for anyone to dump heavy stuff on an unqualified stranger.
Weird…I have a VERY similar story….
Its an immediate improvement. Been there about two weeks. Everyone is respectful and most are impressive.
If you’re a girl its cool because you don’t have every horny guy in the world messaging you and if you’re a guy it’s cool because she messages you first so you know that she’s at least somewhat interested.
I recommend it to everyone.
Before I deleted the app, I changed my tagine thing to » delete this and get bumble » and changed my settings to interested in women so the girls can stop being harassed
We’ve sent you a DM about this – if you can follow up there that would be great as we’d like to look into this as soon as possible.