POF : How handsome or hot do you have to be in order to get a decent amount of matches?
The title speaks for itself. I have been struggling to get more matches and so far only 2 matches i got since last month. Plus, does being asian negatively impact the amount of likes/matches i get? I heard asian guys had the hardest time with dating apps
By. hypergogeta
I get zero women replying and I don’t think I’m ugly
It will help a lot if you don’t just say hey or have a message that looks copied and pasted. I don’t really know what is normal for men but women get 100+ daily and it’s overwhelming so try to stand out
Dating apps are fucking armageddon for men. I can’t on the spot think of a game that is more stacked against us. But it *is* a game. And you have a choice *not* to play it.
My unsolicited advice? Strap on some balls and talk to women in the real world. There’s nothing to hide behind out there. The battles you win out there, be it in terms of the sheer amount of numbers received or panties dropped, will give birth to a confidence in you that vanquishes ideas of negative impacts because you’re Asian.
I believe most women still looking for a perfect 10 guy that goes to the gym and has a 6-pack of ab’s. Even the 40+ women. I created a fake profile a couple times with some stock photos of a good looking guy. Started getting compliments and at least one match every day or so.
$$$ generous is also « handsome » and you may be evaluated for this trait