POF : I can see why I deleted this app. I reinstalled it out of boredom. I’m (M) green in the conversation. I deleted the conversation after this, and didn’t reply.
I can see why I deleted this app. I reinstalled it out of boredom. I’m (M) green in the conversation. I deleted the conversation after this, and didn’t reply.
By. Utetopia
You could have dropped it before the guilt trip remark. Just sayin…
I don’t even give out my number until I’ve met them in person and know I want to see them again, let alone my private socials.
Good for setting your boundaries. I look at it as a filter for someone not on the same page anyways, so it’s better to count them out as early as possible. Take comfort that everyone’s not like that. You just have to dig through the undesirables to find someone worthwhile. It makes sense if you think about it, if you’re dating with standards most people won’t apply.
I really can’t understand why people think that just because a person is on social media that they should have automatic access to it. I think I’ve been on Facebook for about 12 years now, probably longer. I have way too much stuff on there. Pictures of where I live, my daughter, last name, etc. Who-with any sense at all-just adds randos to their social media without vetting the person first? But it’s the fact that the person even asked in the first that baffles me.
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It’s one thing if a person offers but to just ask « can I add you on Facebook »? For fucking what?
Bear in mind you can’t read tone over text. Giving her the benefit of the doubt, she may just have been flirting with that « not good enough » remark.
Mind you, she should know that herself and avoid anything that could be so easily misinterpreted. You probably dodged a bullet.
Wow that was extremely bizarre. Glad you didn’t let them pressure you into befriending them on fb. Who knows what they have posted if befriended them.
Why the hell would someone want to be Facebook friends? I guess to get more information on you. Facebook just seems like a family orientated page though, its usually Snapchat that is asked for. However, sometimes adding on Facebook just means « hi » pretty much. A lot of the times a girl can add you on facebook and just ghost you, especially those hot girls that have like 3500 people on their friend list.
Social media in general seems like a cockblock for men. They get to stalk your every move on Snapchat.
Wow. People have no boundaries or have a clue what boundaries are.
I once exchanged phone numbers with someone because we were going to go out, and the next thing is she’s sending a friend request on fb!
That should have been a level of concern, but I liked her so I added her. I had to block her a month later when our « relationship » fell apart.
I agree with her.
How are people supposed to make friends unless they take the risk of trusting them and getting to know them? You can never truly know whether to trust someone UNTIL you get to know them, and as you decline to make the most elementary social interaction, you obviously are not attracted to her as you would with other people who capture your interest, whilst also failing to establish the necessary protocol to get to know someone to determine compatibility.
As you never added her, you don’t want to be her friend. She was right to believe you don’t like her.
Lucky escape she used ‘off ‘ when it should have been ‘of’ lol
Also, I used to be totally the same about Facebook, that’s for friends and family
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